I thought it was just going to be sex  

2playfulandhorny 52F
41 posts
12/29/2005 10:51 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

I thought it was just going to be sex

When I signed up on AdultFriendFinder, I thought all of my interactions with men would just be sexual. I had no idea what to expect. Was it going to be a "wham, bam, thank you Ma'am"? "That was good for me dear, thanks, but be on your way"?

To my surprise, not one of my connections has been that way. I have been introduced to cats and dogs; had tours of houses and apartments; been given flowers, drinks, and meals. And after wards, there's always time for conversation.

Each time I meet someone new, its like opening the door to another life. Another life, a different personality, shared and differing interests, different careers, different philosophies, etc. I thought it would be just a sexual gratification thing, but it is so much deeper.

These men don't want just sex. They also need the companionship; the personal interaction; the friendship. Some have been so supportive. Most are quite complimentary. I have to say, this has given me a new respect for men--or some men anyway. And a reminder that men can be good friends. A fact I forgot over 17 years of marriage. LOL

Here's to my new friends! Thanks for opening the doors to your lives and letting me be a part.


NSAAddict 42F

12/29/2005 11:37 pm

Hi 2playful, Just wanted to say... very well put! I feel the same way about my experiences here and have made some really great connections and wonderful new friends. Thanks for the great post, NSA


gladiotar 46M

12/30/2005 10:46 am

hey 2playful - let's grab a drink and see if we are attracted to each other.


redswallow777 48M
6810 posts
1/23/2006 2:43 pm

Sounds like you have been a lucky woman 2playful....but perhaps it also has something to do with who you are with these men. It is always good to hear of positive experiences here.


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