the adult virgin  

2ofusfor3 53M/48F
245 posts
8/3/2005 3:05 pm

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the adult virgin

I haven't given the subject much thought until now. But thinking about it and putting myself in an adult virgins shoes made me realize the mental stress and self doubt that must come along with not having had sex when everyone the same age seems to be doing it all of the time. Some may say it gives them a feeling of being special and they have a gift to give to someone... and might even be mature enough to admit they will suck as a lover because of their inexperience. It is true, it is a gift you have to give. Yet, I feel your doubt and fear. I hope that you, the adult virgin, will be able to believe in yourself enough to be ok with waiting for the right person. The right person will understand that no matter what you say, you are scared of rejection. Hopefully your first time will be with someone who has realistic expectations and won't mind holding your hand during a special moment in your life and will appreciate the gift.

A self-righteous adult virgin putting themselves above others, believing they are better than others, is the same as saying: I've bought a ticket and still have it... and you don't." Yet he has not seen the show. Either way doesn't elevate a person as it does not make one person more human than another. It doesn't make sense.

Believe in yourself and have belief in others... that the good you see in them is real. Everything else should fall into place. Just believe. There are many people who would love to be the one to show the way and watch you as the experience takes you.

007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
8/3/2005 4:15 pm

I get the feeling that once the virgin get his cherry busted hes going to be just like us. He calls us all whores sluts and cheaters, I would to see it when the first orgasm blow out the top of his head. He wont know what hit him. Then he will be drooling at his keyboard looking for his next fuck. He will Also most likely become pussy whipped, there is nothing that has a tighter hold on a man than a good pussy. LOL. Then I would like to see what he writes then. Book Titled, "Passions of the Pussy-whipped"

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

ih8usrnames 40M

8/3/2005 5:43 pm

straightten...I'll try not to take that personally but I think I already am pussy whipped

2ofusFor3 - not speaking for all of us (adult virgins) but my own virginity is far from pure. Not something I did intentionally. None of this saving myself for marriage garbage. I've been wanting to get laid and have dirty sex for as long as I can remember

This mightn't make much sense but I found my personality profile to be rather revealing.

Anyway, thanks for your advice

2ofusfor3 53M/48F

8/3/2005 5:45 pm

Easy now. No one said he hasn't had an orgasm. My guess is he has had many at his own hand and probably tasted his own cum plenty of times. Knowledge can't compare to experience, yet the man you are referring to HAS done his studies. The question I keep asking myself is what has kept him a virgin? Is it his arrogant attitude towards all us little people? When someone looks down at everyone, he can't look up too... he is his own higher power. He does not have the safety of being protected. He will fall and when he does, he'll then be able to look up. I am disturbed at how he compares himself with Jesus and Gahndi. He is blind.

This particular post wasn't inspired by him anyway. It was inspired by another virgin who I wish the best of luck to.

artistforexploit 60M

8/3/2005 6:03 pm

Well I for one still have my virginity,....somewhere, was here just a minute ago....must be in a safe place....

2ofusfor3 53M/48F

8/5/2005 7:14 pm

artistforexploit, I think I saw it run off with a cat.

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
8/7/2005 2:33 am

there are two virgins within the Greek members,one i feel sorry for bless and the other i hope he stays a virgin for ever
the first wrote to me as i looked like an angel with lots of lovely testamonial(all deleted now)and would i help him loose his virginity as it had become embaresing for him and he couldn't get a regular girlfriend as he said they all wanted an experianced guy,hes 34 and was training to be a priest,i wished i could have helped him but i told him to relax and wait for nature and the right girl to come along.
The second guy 26,marches into chat with a "i'm 26,high IQ,very handsome ,good job and i want to fuck as i'm still a virgin,"so we all asked what his problem was,he ranted on that girls were bitches and not nice people,so i just made the comment of what girl wants an arrogant selfish prick for a lover,he went balistictelling me hes seen a shrink,and that hes too clever for the normal girl,so i suggested he find a nice profesional and pay for losing his virginity ,sorry to say the whole room agreed and pissed them selves laughing as he screamed ,they were beneath his social standing in life,which made us all laugh more.
Some guys are just too clever for there own good and deserve everything that comes too them,while others deserve only kindness and help.

Wow i babbled on and sorry about the spelling,i'm not so good at that

I'm a

i'm here to stay

2ofusfor3 53M/48F

8/7/2005 3:25 pm

Papyrina, thanks for sharing. I know very few people who are so extreme and so narrow minded. I'm getting the feeling I need to move on and let this one be. It's just another human being human... I can be extremely thankful not everyone is the same.

StarShapedGeeza 30M
7 posts
8/18/2005 8:15 am

I'm a virgin, I'm getting kind of worried now because I don't want to be. I'm 18 and one day will have a Girlfriend and I don't want to not be pleasing her... that kind of worries me.
All my friends give me stick about it, but I'm just as horny as the rest of them.. I just don't sleep with anyone.
I want to lose it!

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