2ofusfor3 53M/48F
245 posts
8/2/2005 11:55 am

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There is a young gentleman on this site who I think is very well known. LoyaltyandHonor. He is listed on the blogs favorites. His blogs are full of valuable information and I would call it pretty accurate and well researched. However, I can't get my mind around his delivery. Is it me, or is he insulting Americans? Is it me, or is he truly full of himself? I'm hoping by posting this that perhaps I will be set straight... perhaps I do not see everything through what I perceive to be prejudice. Please help me to understand how a 24 year old male virgin can throw a generalization such as all Americans are sexually stupid can survive in life without much unhappiness. His perch is so high I'm afraid a fall will kill the poor guy.

007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
8/2/2005 12:19 pm

It's not just you. I saw his post. A lot of people have stopped even visiting his blog because of his offensiveness. I also read that He comments to individuals who leaves a comment on his blog but I have posted on his blogs and he has never given me a comment back he has skipped over what I say. So I wont be giving any more comments to him. Also he thinks that cheaters are worse than sluts in his book so that makes me the worse on his list. I have seen a lot of information on his blog but his attitude sucks so bad I dont feel I would even consider that info as valuable.

To that Americans post, He damn well insulted us all. I am sure some will try and justify his actions but that post is just plain unamerican, and is no justification.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
8/2/2005 12:47 pm

his reasearch does seem well thought and reasearched but his attidute stinks in every thing but sex,

I'm a

i'm here to stay

rm_lovinit30024 55M

8/2/2005 12:54 pm

Ha, Ha...I read some of his posts (as much as I could stand)...yes, he seems to "research" his material...but as someone who has been through at least as many life adventures as the next person, my take is that no one can pontificate on something without real, actual experience. Kind of like the old saying...those who can't do, teach. Now I don't totally believe that as I have many friends in the educational field and I have nothing but respect for them (teaching is not one of my gifts), but the harsh reality of life has proven the saying true in most respects.

I am afraid the young man has much to learn from actually DOING something before he can be an expert on doing someone...

I don't know where he is from (I'm a standard member and won't waste the view), but the worldview of Americans isn't always that flattering, for any number of truly valid reasons. But you can't make your point if you piss-off your audience while trying to do so...they stop listening!

Why don't you send him an email and ask him your questions directly?

Maybe he is really a nice guy...maybe he just has issues with women, his penis size and the inability to finally publish his book!...

His reply will tell the tale.


PS: Yes, I know that was catty!

TanGoddess1118 51F

8/2/2005 1:05 pm

In my opinion the guy if full of himself. I read his profile and just enough of his blog that I could stomach. Which wasn't much! He talks in circles.

I think "24 year old male virgin" says it all! In lies the problem!

I agree about the fall! It will be interesting to watch.

artistforexploit 60M

8/2/2005 4:07 pm

Sorry, I read a couple of times & wasn't impressed enough to return...

2ofusfor3 53M/48F

8/2/2005 4:42 pm

Sadly, he will find himself very alone and the whole time thinking how he is God's gift to women. A perch has not room for two. Only one. And all others will have to be below him.

His fall should be an event to celebrate. Not because it is his just reward to suffer the pain, but rather it will be the beginning of a new life for him. He'll understand what was said here for the first time and know that he has much learning to do. He will then be able to strive to become the person he thinks he is now... godlike. It is a day to celebrate should he fall only to stand up and look everyone in the eye and say, "I'm sorry." His fall will be something to celebrate.

Yes, it may be that he'll stand up and blame everyone for it, but it will mean he has not taken THE FALL. The more years under his belt, the higher up the perch is, the bigger lesson he will learn.

ih8usrnames 40M

8/2/2005 6:56 pm

Loyalty's blog aside, I'll comment on virginity.

I'm 28. When I was 24 I was beggining to feel proud of my virginity. That it made me special in someway.

More and more though I think it makes me plain weird. But I try not to be ashamed of it!! I guess I've taken a fall somewhat (though I often blamed things like my physical appearance). I'd be a lousy lover/sex partner. That much has to be admitted.

Practise makes perfect

rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
8/3/2005 2:47 pm

I'm a born again virgin, does that count? He is young. Young men make mistakes. It just takes some time to understand we are but a small insignificant part of a great big world. That realization is most humbling and often avoided for as long as possible.

Maybe he would do well brushing up on his delivery.

[blog talldarkavg1]

2ofusfor3 53M/48F

8/3/2005 5:48 pm

You are right talldarkavg1, but his case is so extreme and said from a perch so high up, I wonder who the heck he hangs out with.

starlight_runner 39F

8/9/2005 8:22 am

He knows that people read.He knows he cause controversy.He knows more people will come along.Its all a game of toy soldiers, and the more we throw our hands up and promote him , the more he gets off on it.I would say ignore him, but both he and I know that you wont.

Either way he wins.

Kisses Star

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