let's all talk about fingering  

2muchwoman4some 41F
64 posts
11/22/2005 12:51 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

let's all talk about fingering


I don't know anything about the vagina. It's like Area 51, or Roswell. I have no idea what's going on down there. The vagina is like a grand piano: it's beautiful when it's tuned, but a lot can go wrong and it needs a lot of maintenance. I, on the other hand, have a kazoo. ~Adam Corolla

So many men seem to want to please us orally (or with their kazoo) that they forget the amazing things they can do to us with their hands. It's disappointing to me when I don't get a good fingering. I want someone who knows how to read me this way, who can respond to my body without instructions, who will build it up nice and easy and make me cum from my toes. Women, if you aren't familiar with your g-spot, it's a spot you want to know.

Fingers can move so elegantly inside us. Curl up and spread out, turn and rotate; apply and reduce pressure. Even my own fingers are limited by being attached to my arms; fingers coming from a different angle and with different pressure feel awesome. It's great mixed with a tongue on my clit or my own fingers.

I think there are men who really get it and those who don't when it comes to fingering. I suppose there are some still learning too. A man who "has it" in this arena isn't counting fingers or in a hurry to shove their fist in.

If you want to make a woman die a little happy death - google the term "yoni massage" and try it. Yoni is Sanskrit for "sacred temple" aka pussy. Whether you're into Tantra or not, the massage technique is great for finding the g-spot if it's been hiding, or if other attempts have failed. It's also nice to use if you want to slow things down and get deep with your partner.

Tell me ladies, how do you feel about fingers? Am I in the minority in loving manual stimulation? What about fisting? What should men know about touching you?

And men, why do you want to fuck us so hard but get nervous about fingering us hard? What is your normal fingering technique, and who taught you? How does it feel to have your fingers deep inside us?

Travis79fl 37M

11/27/2005 10:54 am

You may be too much for some, but whoever can handle it will surely enjoy the experience. I enjoyed reading this and now I will have to go study up on the yoni massage, you can never know too much. Also wanted to thank you for the comment on my blog. Keep in touch.


rm_oilyandevil 46M

11/29/2005 7:54 am

It can be awkward if the guy tries to get really fancy with his technique only to be told to tone it down a bit. Or a 'just fuck me' instead; that can be funny. And good.


2muchwoman4some 41F

11/29/2005 3:03 pm

oilyandevil> are you referring to something specific that happened to you? Tell me more.


SmithDrew 38M

11/30/2005 6:24 am

i love to use my fingers and a tongue on the clit...i curl my finger up inside and that seems to do some magic, as well as twisting them around...when a woman's hips start bouncing up and down, i know i'm doing the right thing...you ready for that 2much?


silkysmoothlegs3 105F

12/4/2005 2:00 pm

well i was never fingered until this year.. you may think .. but its true..

I used to slide my fingers in myself to see what it felt like..

Then the first lover I had He asked me after a few meets was there anything id like..

I said oh yess Id love you to slide your fingers real deep into my pussy..

Well he oblidged and well it was yummy

My G spot felt so good

SmithDrew i love your tecnique

love you blogg 2muchwoman4some

silky xxxxxxxxxx


Greenguy96 43M

12/6/2005 7:53 pm

Well, for one I've learnd that all women ar differnt. Belive it or not some women don't want you hands there. However for most it's great for play. I'm not too sure how I do it, I kind of make it up. However, I always start out rubbing the pussy and then the middle finger will rub on the Clitoris. However only a few time do the women cum, most of the time she'll get really wet, right befor Orgasm , then SHE asks me for intorcose.
Hope that helps


singlem1969 47M

12/10/2005 1:46 pm

I have a visual handicap so if you can put it in braille in your vagina, I'll try to figure out what's going on down there and elicit the proper responses according to the manual. LOL.
I like fingering, it's so personal and can be done almost anywhere and my fingers have more tactile sensory nerves than other parts of the body so I can get a good "read".


pseudohippie 49F

12/18/2005 9:35 am

I'd rather be fingered (clitoris, vagina, gspot) than receive oral sex.


pseudohippie 49F

12/18/2005 9:38 am

By the way, I taught SmithDrew how to listen He was a good pet.


TantricMrSix 42M

12/20/2005 1:25 pm

I enjoy fingering a woman... actually, the first time I ever made a woman squirt was due to fingering. And the second, for that matter. I'm mostly self-taught, though I've heard of the curling-finger technique before. Each woman is different, though! Some don't like it at all...


2muchwoman4some 41F

12/21/2005 5:30 pm

mmm, yes Tantric - that's actually how I squirted for the first time myself....I don't understand how some women can not enjoy it. Do you?


TantricMrSix 42M

12/22/2005 10:03 am

I do enjoy it quite a bit... the best is fingering with some oral as well. I like to finger the g spot while sucking on her clit, and I love the way it makes women squirm and moan. Such a turn on!!


rm_art_persists 51M
1789 posts
2/2/2006 8:43 pm

I love to finger a standing woman while standing behind her. This way she can push back into me. It also allows me to play with the control game. Fingering also goes hand in hand with a spanking...


mot5100 46M

2/4/2006 6:12 pm

I can't imagine sex without using my hands. I rarely move to intercourse before bringing a woman to climax with my hands.

Instructions are simple. Pay attention to your lover. Her response will quickly tell you if what you are doing is good for her. Don't give up until you find what makes her happy. Once you find a few strokes, motions and places that she responds to rotate those. Focus on her pleasure and soon she'll explode in ecstacy.

I think the most important thing is that she knows you are paying attention and focusing on her pleasure.

I'm a massage therapist and have been blessed with great intuition. Together the translate to orgasm after orgasm....And guys....We all know that there is nothing more erotic than a woman in the midst of pure pleasure.


mot5100 46M

2/4/2006 7:17 pm

Thanks for the suggestion of Yoni Massage. I just read several websites and I'm fascinated. I can't wait for the opportunity to share this.

Tom


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