I'm in FUCKING "nice guy" HELL!!!!  

2hard2betrue 42M
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5/30/2006 5:12 pm

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I'm in FUCKING "nice guy" HELL!!!!


Ok, I get it. I've heard from like three different women that I'm a "nice guy".

It's not my fault. I never wanted to be a nice guy. I wanted to be the bad boy that the women were drawn to. I always played second fiddle. I always was the guy to sit there with the crying girl and pick up the pieces because my friend broke her heart. (Of course, on the other hand, the 'bad boy' did break the girl's heart)

Now I'm still the "nice guy". Fuck! Nice guys go nowhere. I don't have to be an asshole, but I don't want to be a nice guy either. Hell, even my wife just wanted to be friends. I guess I should have taken that as a hint.

I'll get over it. It just sucks.

I've traded my Morrisey and The Cure for Rob Zombie, Ministry and Nine Inch Nails. I may even take my friend Jennifer's advice about getting a tattoo. I could pull it off. I'm in good shape again. I'm working on my six pack. I don't have to take this "nice guy" shit lying down.

I'm not even my friend's type (she knows who she is... neighbor.) because I'm a "nice guy". So what???

Just because I might pay attention to you and offer to help change your tire doesn't make me boring.

Women marry nice guys after they've had all the good sex they could handle with the "bad boys".

Well dammit, I'm paid for another couple of weeks on this stupid site and I'm not looking for someone to date. I just want to have some fun with fun people. I just got out of a living hell marriage. I'm not looking to lather, rinse and repeat.

I'm going to find a happy medium. I don't have to take this lying down. There's room for me in this world as much as anyone.

rm_verygood269 42M

5/30/2006 6:58 pm

My friend, reread your post and ask yourself: "Would John Wayne ever sound like this?".


2hard2betrue replies on 5/30/2006 7:53 pm:
John Wayne was considered a "nice guy" for all the good things he did in his life. The anti-smoking campaign he helped promote after he was diagnosed with cancer. The actor is even on a postage stamp.

My issue is simple. Would a woman have gone up to John Wayne and said, "I don't want you. You're just 'friend material'"? Or, the other one, "Your too nice for me to find attractive". That's what I've been hearing lately. Frankly I'm just in a bad mood and this time, I'm not deleting my post just because it sounds bad.

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