You Are Driving Me Nuts!!!  

2daycowboywanted 45F
866 posts
6/27/2006 9:44 am

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6/29/2006 11:13 am

You Are Driving Me Nuts!!!

Have you ever had someone who loves you - and says it over and over so much that they drive you nuts? They are so clingy and so needy that you cant seem to escape them?
I have a friend and he is absolutely about to drive me nuts!! He is a good guy. Not the greatest in bed, but hey - he is there when I need him and he manages to get the job done. I cant tell you how many times a day he tells me that he loves me. I have explained to him that there is a massive difference with sex and making love and loving someone and great sex. (Which he claims that I know how to do quite well - lol!!) I have told him that I dont feel the same way. I dont use the word love unless I really deep down inside feel that I do. I feel that the word have been tossed around so much now a days that people really dont even know what it means anymore. I chose not to use the word - unless of course it is what I mean.
The poor guy - totally uses the word all the time. He is married and I have known him from school years. He is a great friend and there isnt anything that he wouldnt do for me - or anyone else. He is a great person. One of those people that needs a slapping every now and then because people take advantage of him.
I have tried to tell him - he loves the sex and not me and he tells me "NO, I love you". I could do without the sex, but not you.
So for all those people who claim you love someone - lighten up you just might be driving them nuts!!!

Until later XOXO

Pst...Roper - you made me giggle again. Photos will be on by Friday and you shall have to let me know what you think. Smooches, babe!

redmustang91 57M  
8661 posts
6/27/2006 10:27 am

I would just agree to disagree. Tell him you love him, but you know there are many different levels and types of love. Why upset someone over their differing definitions of a word? Most women like to be told they are loved so perhaps you should just enjoy the sensation.

buddhamike 106M
7006 posts
6/27/2006 10:52 am

You pose a rather male point of view. (and he presents a rather female perspective) I hope your male friends show proper appreciation, they're lucky to know you!

roper_6969 55M

6/27/2006 11:53 am

LMFAO!!! I'll tell you I love you if it makes you cum Can't wait for the pics babygirl. And I'm glad I made you smile. But it was true, I already said I love, uh, like a woman who knows that sex is sex and fuckin is fuckin. If you read my pro, I kinda say that. I might tell you I love being inside you, or I love being between ur legs, something like that. But I agree, I love you is said too frequently to mean anything anymore. But if I feel it, I'll wear you out.

Kisses sweetie,

xxxtallorderxxx 46M

6/29/2006 9:02 am

it's interesting to note that we have lots of meanings to the same word love in the western world. In china they have at least three different expressions of the word love which symbolise the love given. Perhaps we should take note and have better meanings for the love we mean rather than use love on it's own.

1 ) would love to fuck you silly - Fuckbuddy
2 ) would love to kiss n cuddle - Touchbuddy
3 ) would love to just be with you and share my life with you - Love


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