Life Is Good  

2daycowboywanted 45F
866 posts
7/27/2006 9:22 am

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8/4/2006 1:00 pm

Life Is Good

Being single and free to do what I wish is a great thing. I dont have to check with anyone or ask anyone for anything. I have a management position where I am free to come and go as I please. I was smart enough to know that I needed to attend college when I got out of high school, knowing that if I didnt go then I wouldnt go at all. I managed to put myself through college and managed to wiggle my way up to management within the first year of my job. Two years ago I managed to built a house. I am able to do just about whatever my mind decides to do.

Then again - are things so great? Dont get me wrong I have had several long term relationships that ended, probably because I am head strong and refuse to bow down to someone elses demands. I feel that a relationship should cause a person to grow not become dependent on another. When things quit growing and one become demanding or possessive - I tend to move on. Being jealous is not my cup of tea.

It would be nice to have someone to come home to in the evenings or on the weekend. It would be nice to have a warm body to climb into bed with and spend all nice making love. It would be nice to know that I could cook a nice meal, have friends over and someone stay the night. Sure that happens from time to time, but in a way I feel as though I am letting life slip by me.

These feelings are probably just hormones going haywire and I will feel better in the morning, then again - will I?? Should I settle for something less than what I really want?? Is there that guy out there that will let me be me, who loves to hunt, fish, drink beer, let me shop until late hours and hang out with the girls and not be afraid of my independence and just accept me as me??

Then again Life Is Good - isnt it??

Until later

Roper - glad to know you missed me Wouldnt want it any other way

rm_fiesta469 41M
14 posts
7/27/2006 12:07 pm

I have just had a look at a few of your blogs and they are very interesting i like the way you put down what you are thinking and for that i respect and admire you so keep up the good work and i will deffinatly read your next blog oh yes and good luck in finding the one you want and thanks for your comment.

roper_6969 55M

7/27/2006 12:26 pm

Lmao. Damn honey, you don't want much, do you? BTW, no more vacations for you.

Kisses Cowgirl,

Duffer422 40M

7/27/2006 12:46 pm

This has spooked me a little, your not alone.....

Duffer XXXX

AstirRelicLatah 64M
1993 posts
8/2/2006 6:50 pm

Settling is not worth it....When you settle, you die, just a little. When you settle again, it gets easier. Before you know it, your life has gone by and you wonder if that's all there is....

Instead, I find things work best when I get very clear about what I want. The specifics are clear and bring in my mind.....When that happens, I don't find just one person or thing, but many......It's all about clarity. Or, as one of my favorite teachers has said, "clarity leads to power". Good luck.

rainqueen04 55F
1340 posts
8/4/2006 10:20 am

i like your blogs, i've read a few, and never settle for less, and settle down with someone that is just so-so or good enough for now. i don't agree with skier 100% but you will know when the right person comes along. or so i hope to think cuz i'm in the same boat as you. enjoy the freedom you have and live life to the fullest~~it will all come together 1day.


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