Friends Vs. Sex  

2daycowboywanted 45F
866 posts
5/23/2006 8:36 am

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7/17/2006 2:22 pm

Friends Vs. Sex

Which would you rather have if you had to chose between a friend or sex? Wondering - which is better in the long run.

Sex with a friend is awesome but if you had to chose between one or the other - which one would it be? A friend being someone that you could tell anything to and do anything with and not have to worry about what the other one thinks. Or would it be best to have the greatest sex possible and leave it at that?

I think somewhere along the line - friends and sex get blurred and one really never has one without the other. When the friendship dissolves you are left with no sex and when the sex dies out you are left with no friend - so what is a person to do?

So confusing - and totally not worth the time to think about.

Until later...

sirlixxxalott19 42M

6/5/2006 7:13 am

Hi well I have to say friends first because you can always choose to have sex with someone if you both want. But to have a great friends who isnt opposed to great sex that is the best, the so called friends with benefits.....The secret is to maintain the friendship and not let sex get into the way....

Araxdebold 59M

7/17/2006 1:59 pm

I have found through the years that the women I have had affairs with were my best friends. They knew everything I was troubled about I knew what they were troubled about and we helped with advice and still had the greatest sex two people can have. I say a friend is the person you can be with and trust, not like in a relationship because there are RULES that must be followed where in a friends/sex relationship you both know that the other doesn't want cloying rules.
We always nknew when the other was happy, sad, troubled or confused and when the time was right for fun. More and more people today marry for security reasons not for love or lust, which ultimately ends with money problems always getting in the way. I have several lady friends who have never been married and are happy having just friends they have sex with and no constraints, 3 of which have raised children without problems. "Just my thoughts not proven worldwide scientific facts...."

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