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 8/23/2007 8:05 am |
Bareback and STD free of course! 
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8/23/2007 8:32 am |
a jacket is safer for sure, but its like having a bath with your socks on, much prefer bareback
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8/23/2007 8:35 am |
Bareback is best but unless you know everyone that the other person has sleep with in the last 10 years.And they have a current complete up to date copy of all their medical tests.Including all blood work and is willing to be retested before you have sex.I'd say put on your rain coat,cover jimmy before you jam,make sure you have your rubber duckie before you get in the tub,slip on your rubbers when you go out in the rain,and for GAWD sakes wear a condom.....LOL Not even going to go into the dental dams if your going to dine on the local cuisine.
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8/23/2007 8:43 am |
I tend to agree with the rest. Bareback is definately better. But, this day and age almost require the use of some form of protection. This is not necessarily due to pregnancy risk since there are so many other options if that is your only worry. I must say since I am a sterile fella, I still use the wrap-it-up meathod. This is only due to the fact that I don't feel like catching anything that may be lurking. A couple of my previous partners acted almost offended by this, until I explained it is for the same reason for them. You know you are clean, but how can I tell? I know I am clean, but how do you know that? Easiest way to fix that problem is cover the tool.
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8/23/2007 8:44 am |
Bareback is best if you know all of the following.Is what I meant to say.See post above.
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8/23/2007 10:18 am |
A women may or may not feel the differance, but for a man there is a big differance. When a man is with a women he wants to feel her, not something man made. When he uses a rubber, he might as well use his hand.Things are not the same. I know in this day and age you must be careful. Its ia good idea to get the know the person first before jumping in. Back in he day u had to careful, but not for the same reasons, and I have picked the right wommen so far, but I have also used condems. Those were the times i should have a headache. p.s. always have safe sex, god bless
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8/23/2007 10:21 am |
got to be bareback, but only if you know your partners clean, otherwise why risk it
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8/23/2007 10:57 am |
Going against the grain here I do believe; but the question was sex with or without a condom. We all know that bareback is the ultimate. The closeness and intimacy of skin on skin but there is a time and a place for condoms (rightly so) as mentioned above. The use of a condom can also aid in lovemaking and it is not always a hindrance. gets off high horse and awaits the kicking
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8/23/2007 11:04 am |
I believe in using the condom at first and if you are going into a relationship and you are both clean then it will be ok once both partners agree to go bareback. For Fun & Thoughts - hot4y72 & for a Hot new group Blogs and Anything Else
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8/23/2007 11:46 am |
I have a question sweet puss, how does it feel for the lady, how much difference is there protected vs bareback, for a man its definitely better bareback although the safety issue is a valid question, but definitely in a relationship id never last doing it protected for the rest of my life, its ok for a while then you begin to crack up. I suppose both parties could get tested, its great on the continent you get a result next day. In good old Ireland you have to wait about 2 weeks for a result and thats after probably waiting a month for an appointment in a public health clinic. If you go to a doctor and test positive, its registered and can affect you getting a bank loan for a house etc. +your life assurance will go through the roof if you can even get it. p.s. i find it extremely hard to cum with a condom, even featherlite.Also your so sexy i mightnt have to worry about wearing a condom if i was with you , id probably cum before i even got my jocks off lol. I anxiously await your reply.
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8/23/2007 3:15 pm |
it is the age old dilemma Puss, sensation versus infection! thats as blunt as i can put it, which would you rather have? you can have the sensation but at a great risk of infection (chlamydia is on the rise boys and girls!), or you can cancel out the infection at the cost of some sensation! Ultimately, the choice is a personal one, anyone for russian roulette? lol
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8/23/2007 3:27 pm |
Bareback anyday. But like everyone else I agree with using a jacket.
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8/23/2007 5:08 pm |
I think the answer here is we guys love bareback........but like the boy scouts say, be prepared. It's all about fun so unless you really know someong, protected is the only way for anal / vaginal intercourse. No-ones mentioned oral though........I love going down on a girl till she cums, should i be making them wear a femidom.......chuckles..... and if not does that make it does it mean guys no longer have to use the old "I promise I won't cum in your mouth " line  On a serious point though puss....should woman include ora sex as somewhere a guy should wear a condom?
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8/23/2007 6:28 pm |
Bareback is the best but as you say in this age it is the way of the condom but who likes them, but we all know it makes sense. That said if I get to know someone very well then if we all agree then bareback all the way. How about your choice?, all so if bareback maybe you next poll should be do you pull out or cum inside.
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 8/23/2007 6:51 pm |
While I'm sure bareback is best for feel, it's not worth the risk. I always go with protection - actually never had it bareback in my life so I'm lucky not to know what I am missing.
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8/23/2007 11:42 pm |
bareback all the way
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8/24/2007 12:33 am |
Has to be bareback, but only when in a stable and trusting relationship where you both agree
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8/24/2007 7:33 am |
Bareback! Certified Disease and Sperm free!!! Though, I would protect myself if I hooked up with a "stranger". Back in the 80's, all you had to worry about was getting a gal pregnant.
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8/24/2007 9:09 am |
Have to agree, They would be safer but it's like eating a Mars bar with the rapper still on it. Simply not the same. xxxxx
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8/24/2007 1:07 pm |
Much as I would love to be bareback I am of the same mind as the majority. Much better for all to be safe than sorry for the next 10 years or so!
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8/25/2007 12:48 am |
Bareback definitely
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8/25/2007 11:07 am |
Get a johnnie on but make sure its a filthyjohnnie2 girls x
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8/25/2007 3:05 pm |
Bareback for me but if i choose to use a condom ,the condom has to have an exciting feature,for example heated or studded for her pleasure, flavored( mint, cherry, strawberry,etc. If it is a plan old condom then bareback is my choice.........PUT RUBBERS ON YOU WILLIE, PRACTICE SAFE SEX. and carrying a gun during sex does not count as safe sex.
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8/25/2007 3:34 pm |
I will use protection when i need to but don't like to. i like the feel of bareback much better!
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8/25/2007 5:36 pm |
I don't think I speak for all men, just those that answer using the,"HEAD ON TOP." I always use CONDOMS,because I feel,"not too is just not an option these days.
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8/25/2007 5:56 pm |
I just like to offer some DICK plain and simple.
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8/25/2007 6:41 pm |
i agree bareback is best but who in there right mind would do it without a condom with someone you dont even know accept for online chatting....
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8/25/2007 7:33 pm |
bareback is best...but as a couple we only play with our raincoat, we love hot sex and want to be around to enjoy it later..hehehe
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8/25/2007 7:44 pm |
I have no idea why anyone would go bareback now a days....is one good fuck worth your life? It scares me how many men on here don't wear condoms! You can say that after you get to know someone..blah blah blah...but, come on...especially from a sex site, like you can trust anyone on here is just fucking "you" and no one else!
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8/25/2007 7:50 pm |
i think it truly depends on the` situaion!! i actually set an appt and pay for both to get tested!! it doesnt take long, it gives u something pretty sacred to share and i haven't been turned dlown yet!! Now ifits first night??? if both consent to gettin jiggy with it on first night then it's obvious....its condom time!!! I hate condoms too and now im gonna try n c mor of u cuz i like what i c sofar!!!
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8/25/2007 8:01 pm |
I prefer bareback. It feels so much better.
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8/25/2007 9:03 pm |
I much prefer bareback, the feeling is like nothing else & I just love the feeling of my man gushin his hot thick spunk up my cunt & it washing round the neck of my cervix - amazing!! HOWEVER..... it only happens with full clear testing & that includes the blood tests!! No tests - no sex!!
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8/26/2007 1:03 am |
We prefer bareback and are tested regularly, as it is a requirement for our occupations. We meet people also who have kids, so they are less likely to want to take or give anything nasty
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8/26/2007 1:56 am |
well, speakin from experience bareback is the best feelin in the world but unless ur in a monogamous relationship there is no need for the risk. Of course everyone loves the feel of skin on skin but with everything goin on today who wants to be takin meds for the rest of their life!
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8/26/2007 2:50 am |
Bareback is better, but anymore unless your both sure that your clean, wrap that guy up.
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8/26/2007 3:53 am |
I hate swimming in a fucking rain coat. 
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8/26/2007 6:25 am |
Hate them Hate them Hate them!!!!!!!
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8/26/2007 6:58 am |
Best is being 100% healthy .... .... no condom, no sex ! Live with passion !
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8/26/2007 7:41 am |
I hate condoms BUT it's the only way I'll do it.. Porsche = There is no subsitute
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8/26/2007 7:41 am |
i would rather jackoff that wear a comdom!! ...\8
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8/26/2007 7:44 am |
i would rather jackoff than wear a condom!! ...\8
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8/26/2007 9:29 am |
Bareback should win it hands down, But With all that STD's out there you are playing Russian Roulette!   Namaste Cloud
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8/26/2007 9:41 am |
with out only if i dont get sick from eating you out
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8/26/2007 11:43 am |
well puss i agree with the majority here bareback is definately better you get the feel of woman when she grips your cock, and i think a woman stays wetter without however the protection is certainly worth thinking about this day and age you can never tell, and you have to ask the question is it worth it unless it was with you hun of course
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8/26/2007 1:32 pm |
Bareback. J Are you sure I'm not kidding~? 
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8/26/2007 2:55 pm |
It's such a easy question, I'm surprised it has been asked. It's common knowledge that bareback feels the best, but in this day & age, unless u r in a commited relationship and know ur partner (both should also be tested) Condoms r the ONLY way to go, as unfortunate as that may be, that's the only choice that someone with even a pea brain could figure out!!!!!! BiinLICinto Straight&Bi only
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8/26/2007 3:05 pm |
With my man, bareback of course. With anyone else, no raincoat, no play. Simple as that. Unless I know them reeeaaaallllyyyy well! MSLOXXX69    
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8/26/2007 3:38 pm |
PROTECTION IS A MUST! I HAVE BEEN LUCKY ENOUGH HAVE A FEW RELATIONSHIPS ALONG THE WAY THAT WERE COMFORTABLE ENOUGH THAT WE COMMITTED TO USING CONDOMS ANYWHERE OUTSIDE OUR RELATIONSHIP! IN EACH CASE THE RELATIONSHIP HAD GONE ON FOR A YEAR OR BETTER BEFORE WE ABANDONED THE CONDOM! I DON'T ASK FOR MONOGAMY, I ASK FOR A COMMITTMENT OF PROTECTION   right Peace
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8/26/2007 3:39 pm |
I really don't like the feeling of a comdom but I'd ratter have a good session with penetration with my partner then be frustrated because i was not fucked out of my brains Hugs and Kisses!!!! Ladysensuality
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8/26/2007 6:14 pm |
bareback is great...but we all know whats safe...
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8/26/2007 6:51 pm |
i like riding my horseys bareback.i blame a lot of this on the condo makers. seems to me they could make a fluid of some sorts that you could put in the anus or uteris that would kill any virises or germs and sperm.
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8/26/2007 7:25 pm |
Bareback anyday is better, but I know it isn't PC anymore!
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8/26/2007 7:42 pm |
I'd prefer to use a condom at first until we've had enough time together to discuss alternative means of contraception and until we've made sure neither of us is carrying any communicable diseases.
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8/26/2007 8:38 pm |
Bareback FTW
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8/26/2007 8:51 pm |
Don't you wish we could still do it bareback. It's the best!
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8/26/2007 9:27 pm |
BAREBACK baabee!!... under the right circumstances.. lately that has been few and far in between
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8/26/2007 9:44 pm |
I have one partner, we've both been tested, it's all good.
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8/27/2007 4:48 am |
Even though I prefer bareback, playing it safe is the choice, untill you and your partner are in a trusting relationship.
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8/27/2007 5:11 am |
i think using my hand is always the best option, cant get me pregnant, give me crabs, make me fall in love with it, or moan at me for spending all the money.....works for me, but with a bloke, condoms, well if ya aint too drunk to remember where you are or who you are..
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8/27/2007 5:29 am |
Always bareback but if with someone new or thought they put it about alot, protection. Standards can mail us Sign our Guest Book    
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8/27/2007 7:25 am |
I have been one of the unlucky guys to never be in a trusting reltionship....so i have always had to cover up the cock....i like my cock too much and i don't want nothing attacking it!
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8/27/2007 11:21 am |
Like most everyone else, I have to sat bareback. However...I would never let an opperunity to have sex with a beautiful woman get away from me because I wan't prepared. The nice thing about condoms is that they are small and highly portable It's a Dog eat Dog world and I'm wearin Milk Bone Underwear
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8/27/2007 1:24 pm |
Condoms while you are dating. when you are more comfortable, then both get tested and bareback all the way. Thank God I dont have to worry about getting someone pregant now LOLOL
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8/27/2007 2:34 pm |
I can't believe how many of you said bareback! I wouldn't have unprotected sex with anybody but my husband. Some people are just dirty for no reason... All that is required for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing
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8/27/2007 2:44 pm |
bareback for sure but you just cant take chance anymore
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8/27/2007 4:19 pm |
Bareback is best without any hesitation. It is just that it is not really an option these days.  Too dangerous. If only they brought some DIY STD tests on the market and if you didn't have to wait for x amount of time after the last intercourse. That would be perfect. Little test and of you go shooting anywhere. Ah well, wishful thinking.
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8/27/2007 5:32 pm |
Bareback, all the way, but ONLY if both/all parties are proven STD free....otherwise, protected....but with it being so easy to get tested, why not? Not to mention, bareback, unprotected, and vasectomy safe sex.....even better........ 3 -- <==3 D
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8/27/2007 5:48 pm |
Me personally, I despise a condom. If I feel that I need to wear a condom with a woman, other than to avoid getting her pregnant, which in my case i can't, then I wouldn't feel comfortable having sex with her.My reason is, I know that I am clean, if there is sufficient reason for me to be worried enough about her cleaniless to wear a condom, then I don't need to be having sex with her in the first place. Forget for a moment about the possiblity of pregnancy. I have seen alot of men on here that refuse to have sex with a woman without a condom, yet, they have no problem performing cunnilingus without protection. Also, I have seen alot of women who will perform fellatio but then make the man put on a condom before penetration. If they're so worried about STD's, then that is ignorant. Love It Or Leave It
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8/27/2007 5:52 pm |
with protection is much safer BUT bareback is the best way for sure.
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8/27/2007 8:16 pm |
I only bareback with my hubby even tho I am tested regularly _ Its not worth the risk so safe sex is a must for us when playin HellzBelle69  
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8/27/2007 10:07 pm |
I would rather go bareback but there are more reasons to wear protection. I'm not ready to become a father again. I also don't want to catch something either.
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8/28/2007 7:46 am |
after coming out of a very long relationship 16 years I just started using condoms, and I gotta say.. I like the way they fit tight around me it gives me the feeling of a tight grip all of the time. and it is very scary how many times people encourage me to penetrate them without a condom. But I only play safe so I can play again tomorrow.
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8/28/2007 9:04 am |
Bareback always for me
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8/28/2007 9:39 am |
Always bareback.
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8/28/2007 9:57 am |
as you can see by the results, too many people are having unproected sex..based on my personel experiences on Adult FriendFinder i hope you all are protected..its a different world today..the drugs that use to work don't. the new diseases are hard to treat..sex is great but death is something i can live withoutdoc stay safe....wear a condom
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8/28/2007 10:44 am |
Girl i work in a hospital in gynae th and if u don't use a condom u'll end up there sooner then u'll want must men i bet have said bareback and how many will have std's most of them if they don't use protection
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8/28/2007 12:14 pm |
that's a stupid question which will leave you open to fucktards with their bullshit...just my humble opinion. Honey, you couldn't *PAY* me to be twenty!
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8/28/2007 12:27 pm |
Of course everione like it bareback, but if there is no other way with protection.... ~El Fenix en Llama 
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8/28/2007 2:12 pm |
I voted that, given it is 2007 and we have HIV and a lot of nasty STDs in the world, plus the fact that I do not wish to father a third child at my tender age, that it is condoms in the vast majority of instances of sexual intercourse for me. However, I certainly do greatly prefer not using one, if the right set of "special circumstances" exist with a specific sexual playmate or partner. The wonderful news for me in this regard, is that I am now in an ongoing sexual (and other multi-facets) relationship with one woman with whom we have the trust in the other's STD status and with whom pregnancy is not a risk. In other words, YIPPPEEEE!!!!! Lucky Sean 
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8/28/2007 4:14 pm |
well of course bareback. However considering the day and age that we now live in.that's a little risky.so until you know yer partner and both are comforable..."WRAP THAT RASCAL....and MY GAAAWD FELLERS ..BE CARFULLY NOT TO SLIP AND FALL"
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8/28/2007 5:03 pm |
My wife and I don't use condoms together, mainly because I'm fixed, despite her being on the pill because of swinging. Our first full swap couple was condoms from the beginning, until very recently when we decided together that so long as we used them with other couples, the four of us wouldn't. We have grown very close to them, and trust was a given. This past weekend, they had their second couple for the first time and didn't use condoms. Through a coincidental series of events, HE broke the news to us, and it left us completely floored. We believe that for a number of reasons, there is monumental regret in their decision to live in the moment and not use protection. Above all, we had given one another the ultimate gift of trust on the deepest level, with that being the safety of our spouses and the intimacy with them. Thankfully for us, we slept with them the night before they were with this other couple, so any risk is minimal. But if our relationship with them continues, condoms will be mandatory with no option to not use protection. Unless there are assurances within a close relationship between a select couple and yourselves, along with regular testing, failure to use a condom reeks of absolute ignorance, despite the drawbacks. It is sad that most, if not all of the single guys that responded, are the ones who don't use condoms.
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8/28/2007 5:05 pm |
i like bareback. STD's scrare the hell out of me. i never used a condom before. been without a women for a long time. like i said STD's scrare the hell out of me. i think if i had to have sex i would use a condom. when i out looking i always come prepared realy. have more condoms no women to use them on. any takers? lol. 
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8/28/2007 5:38 pm |
Well, there are pros and cons for both. Bareback feels better, but is not safe, protected is...well, safe, but sort of impersonal, if you get my point. Personally, I try to combine them, when I can-bareback oral, protected sex.
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8/28/2007 6:33 pm |
bareback feels so much nicer but wont go bareback unless me have had sex with you for a month or so
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8/28/2007 7:32 pm |
How would you like it if someone said "Here, stick this gladwrap around your head and stick it in that keg of rum" It looks real sweet and yum, but hey why can i not taste it or feel it. How cruel. Anything as sweet as a pussy or a tight little ass should be felt natural.
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8/28/2007 8:07 pm |
bareback of course! But then again you can't ride every horse bareback. You have to get use to, and know the horse to be comfortable to ride bareback.... until use a saddle.
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8/28/2007 9:25 pm |
You might like the feel of bareback, but you won't like the nausea that goes with the cocktail of HIV suppressing drugs. 2.4 million HIV infected people in the US - that's 1 person in every 125. which means that if Adult FriendFinder membership figures are to be believed and are accurate and the numbers are extrapolated over the total membership there are likely to be 157585 members worldwide who are HIV positive. Given the nature of the sexual lifestyle of a group such as this the actual percentage of infected members is likely to be significantly higher. I'll leave it up to you to work out the mathematical probabilities of meeting one of them.
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8/28/2007 9:44 pm |
I agree that for safety you must use a condom...and bare definitely feels better (it's natural after all) but....even with a long-term partner that I do not need to use a condom with, I have occasionally used one because I last waaayyy longer, so it can be a help when you really want to prolong things for your partner. Paukenplayer Parked sideways in a parallel universe...
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8/28/2007 10:17 pm |
I live in Kenya where aids is a major killer due to careless sex. I have seen lots of people kicking the bucket so I will never fuck without a condom, except with my wife. Hey, it may not be the best in getting pleasure but I would rather live then to be a slow punture.
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8/28/2007 11:26 pm |
Unfortunately, a spiral condom is my only choice since I'm no longer married.
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8/28/2007 11:39 pm |
cover the dick. having a peace of mind makes sex better.
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