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It always amazes me when I meet a woman who gets fooled by a player. How does that happen? Aren't they usually transparent? When I was dating, I always got a kick out of the player types. They were always the same. Cocky, handsome...but most of all, IMPATIENT. You see, the scary thing would be a player with patience. A wise girl can weed out most players because they quite simply are not going to put that much effort into you. Some even have "three date" rules. If they aren't getting it by the third date, they're out of there. Why wait around? If you continue to "date," you'll have to actually pretend to take an interest in her life. You'll have to listen as she talks about her day and learn about her history. You may even have to pretend to care that her favorite food is Italian and (gasp) find a nice Italian restaurant to take her to. That is the trademark of a player. He just doesn't put forth the effort. Sure, he'll take you to whatever restaurant you want to go to but it won't be personalized. You can tell a difference between a guy who does something because he wants to see your eyes light up when you realize how romantic he's being and a guy who has probably done the exact same thing with ten other girls that very month. And then it comes down to technique. I once went on three dates with a player. By the end of the first date he expected a kiss. By the third date, he'd informed me that if a woman takes "too long" to sleep with him, he labels her a prude and moves on. I asked how long was "too long" and he estimated four dates. Call me a prude but...no. Ain't gonna happen. I don't like to put a time limit on things because certainly a relationship can move quickly. But if a man is putting in only enough effort to get you naked and beneath him, four dates will never be enough. Ten dates won't be. So...ladies...have you ever dated a player? What did you notice about him that was different from "more genuine" men? woohoo |
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 5/21/2008 12:22 am |
I never dated a player but I had a friend who was one. I always amazed me that he could so easily fool women. Finally it affected our friendship. SWEETNWASTATE "Run mad as often as you choose, but do not faint."
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