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There will come a day when you will meet someone. And it will be great. And it will never end. Even then, you'll be afraid to get your hopes up. The first date will lead to the second. The second date will lead to the third. Fourth date, fifth date... Still, you'll be afraid to get your hopes up. You'll be reluctant to tell people about him. You've only been dating a week, after all. Then two weeks, then a month... At what point will you allow yourself to believe THIS one will be the one that lasts? How much of the journey do we miss by worrying about our destination? Yes, we've all been hurt in the past, and we've been disappointed when something didn't work out and we had to hurt someone. But eventually, one of these days, it is going to work out. It will last...but we won't know that for certain until months, maybe years later. Maybe not even then. Nothing is ever guaranteed to last forever. Nothing. Even a couple who has been together 25 years could be devastated by divorce or a death. But you don't sacrifice the journey because you might never make it to your destination. It always ends...eventually. Everything does. So you sit back. You enjoy the moment. You get emotionally involved and then... And then you get hurt. Where's the line between being careful not to get too involved, too early, and being so cynical you miss all the fun? Can we ever just enjoy the moment for what it is? What happened to that youthful innocence we all once had? Remember when all of this was actually... Fun? woohoo |
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 5/21/2008 12:28 am |
i remember crushes. they were great....jr high was awesome. if i didn't like him anymore i just moved on the the next crush. i think as adults we need to have crushes more. just enjoy liking someone. we complicate things too much..good post. SWEETNWASTATE "Run mad as often as you choose, but do not faint."
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5/16/2008 8:26 pm |
thats cool glad i could help!!!! woohoo
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5/16/2008 5:56 am |
This has actually helped me deal with a current situation I am in. Thankyou  I intend to enjoy the moments I have with him for what they are instead of worrying about anything else!
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