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All you can think about is her breasts. It's a fact you're a little ashamed to admit. Across from you is this incredible woman who has it all. Depth, a killer smile, and a body most women would die for. So it's no wonder all you can think about is what she looks like beneath all those clothes. Pace yourself. If there's one thing our society seems to have lost it is the ability to wait for something we want. We see it, we want it, and we want it NOW. Why should we have to wait? If we want a milkshake, we drive through the McDonald's drive-thru and get it. (Unless it's the 75 percent of the year they are too lazy to fire up the shake machine and they lie and tell everyone it's "broken.") If we want a movie, we go to Best Buy and buy it. If we want a woman, we tell her she has a nice ass and she'll be in our bed in no time. Yeah, I'm sure you've figured out it doesn't quite work that way. There's an old saying that you can can chase a butterfly around a field all day and not catch it...but if you'll go sit your impatient ass down, it'll probably come rest on your shoulder. Okay, paraphrasing a little there, but you get the point. That butterfly is actually LESS likely to climb into bed with you the more you push her to. In fact, that butterfly might actually want to lure you into her bed if you are behaving like a gentleman. She's used to men chasing her around -- she's not so used to men with patience. It is my belief that a woman is at her best when she is allowed to be a seductress. Let her send the first flirty text message and, when she does, don't get all drooly about it. Flirt back but don't let it open the floodgates of your gutter-mind. The more you pursue, the more she retreats. Eventually she'll give in, but isn't it better if you have a little patience and let her get to the point where all she can think about is what you look like beneath YOUR clothes? A male friend recently told me that there's a complication with this. Apparently he feels that when a man doesn't try to get a woman into bed, she loses interest. She thinks he's a pansy or maybe he's just not into her or maybe he's even not very sexual. Of course, there's a fine line between being a gentleman and being disinterested. I'm not saying you should act like you don't even want her -- just try to avoid being so darn direct about it. So...how soon is too soon to start putting the moves on? We're all aware this isn't high school, where you make out for hours on end, date after date. Kissing leads to touching which, most often, leads fairly quickly to nakedness. Since it's hard to go out with someone week after week without having some sort of physical contact, the temptation is going to be there to progress things. What I'm saying is...wait. Have restraint. Make her wonder why you aren't jumping her. I once knew a man who told every woman he went out with the same thing. "I'm not going to rush into anything physical. I'd like to be friends first, then see how things progress." Every time -- EVERY TIME -- he told a woman this she was trying to seduce him by the third date. Do you see my point? Maybe it won't always work to this extreme, but most of the time that which we pursue too aggressively will retreat from us. Be the man sitting in that field, waiting for that butterfly to perch on your shoulder. Do it...and you'll be surprised how much more quickly it will pay off. woohoo |
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4/7/2008 6:39 am |
The main problem with that assertion is that for the most part women have become accustomed to the neanderthal method of seduction and fly around stirring up the chasers and don't notice anyone sitting in the field. so really you have a bunch of apes humping anything that flutters in one field, a heap of decent men sitting lonely and bored in a field next to it and a heap of amazing butterflys sitting on twigs equally discontent in the next field over
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3/15/2008 3:24 am |
It works all the time, patience. And it's alot more fun that way. I've heard the butterfly story but with cats, ignore the cat and it will be begging for attention, give him too much attention and it will just ignore you. Same point, different beast, nice article of yours. Keep on rockin' ¡
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 3/15/2008 3:19 am |
Ya i wish to find a gal like that. Although i still want to be known she is serious about it and not stringing me along. I try to be like your male friend but sadly and happily at the same time i usually wind up in bed on the first date. I say sadly and happily together for a reason. Happily my primal instinct is cured, but sadly some of the relationships i have had end up just being all about sex. I'm trying but sometimes it's hard to resist the temptation but kudos to you on wanting to develop something before sex. That's when in my opinion a relationship is more likely to be stronger.
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3/15/2008 3:01 am |
Dang!! Are all the Assiue girls as smart as you? lol You've got a hellofa point there! But I really didn't want all the guys to find that out cause then there's too many guys sitting in the field
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