Blown off twice in one day.........  

1realdarlin 47F
601 posts
7/28/2006 1:43 pm

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Blown off twice in one day.........

I met someone today for a drink and soon as he got out of his truck he said he had just got called into work, i feel he was just using that as as excuse. If thats the case i wish he had just been honest and if he really did get called into work im sorry for all the names i called him when i drove away!!!! I have never been blown off like that before, stood up yes blown off no. Either way not good for my ego or my self esteem. Oh well ill keep going along hoping to meet the frog of my dreams!!!

Met someone again this same night that did the exact same thing, i mean exact!!!!
My hormonal body cant take this rejection that i have dealt with today. **sobs**

CB_2 51F

7/28/2006 2:22 pm

Well, on the plus side, at least he turned up! Would have been worse if he had discreetly checked you out from the sidelines and walked off without acknoweldging your existence.

On the real side, that was just plain rude... You didn't miss much, if that's his behaviour on a first date.

Blogito ergo sum.

creamsoda1966 50

7/28/2006 3:54 pm

Congrats on the quiting smoking!! It's been 9 years for me.

Maybe he really, really got called back to something. It happened to me. Give him a chance to call you back. If it was genuine, expect a nice make-up first date.

If you don't get a nice one, well you know the answer.

rm_C2UrNeedz 55M
60 posts
7/28/2006 11:39 pm

Initally I read the title and was going to applaud the lucky girl that you were until I noticed your mood and it wasn't the kind of blowing off you wanted. Who knows? With the surgery recovery thing and a less than great experience when gettng back into the rhythm of things you may have some bad karma or whatever thrown out there for the rest of the world at large and both of them may actually have legitimate stories. If not, have a hug and start ramping the emotions back up again. Life's too short to dwell on the bad ones anyway. A female friend of mine in KCMO tells me that experiences like yours are exactly why God created margaritas and the Vibratex Rabbit Habit.

Cozy_Red 50F

7/30/2006 4:59 pm

Poooor girl! *hands you tissues*

Sometimes your the windshield and sometimes the bug. Its tough being rejected... or thinking you were. Dont give up!


rm_artydawg 44M
26 posts
8/5/2006 11:51 am

hell, I wish I could get "blown off" twice in a day, roflmao.

but on a serious note, that is unexceptable. men (or women) should have the balls to say "hey I'm sorry, I don't think this could work".

lotso0ffun 50M
4 posts
8/5/2006 9:25 pm

you need to get right back on the horse.dont let it beet you i will take care of it you wont be despointed

rm_ks66062 55M

8/13/2006 9:45 am

Hey girl
Dont let it bother you. If anything you should be happy that they wasted your time in a public venue rather than in private. Chances are when they seen you in person thier already little erect winker lost its load and they had to leave. So mark one more up for you. You go girl

DoveOK 56F

9/1/2006 12:00 pm

Fuck em and feed em fish heads..

rm_texman4older 52M
1 post
10/14/2006 12:44 pm's been about 2 1/2 months since the "blow offs". I hope you have gotten past it all. On the bright saved yourself from having to spend any amount of time with 2 potential jerks. I would love to meet for a drink sometime if you're ever up to it. I can also be reached on yhoo e-mail or messenger at (sintex_naughtyboy). Keep your chin up...they obviously were idiots.

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