Why not post a pic?  

1playfulgal 39F
7112 posts
5/23/2005 10:51 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Why not post a pic?

I've always wondered about the people who come onto a site like this without a picture...i wonder how many people are actually willing to risk meeting a person without seeing them first...I think that people without a pic either have someting to hide or they just aren't real...

Am i the only one that demands to see a picture before meeting someone...

If there are people who meet someone without first seeing what they look like...why do you do it? Have you had good/bad experiences?

nipples4sucking 53F
4 posts
5/24/2005 12:01 am

Like you, I have a pic of my tits because if I posted a picture of my face, I could lose my job, which would be disasterous to say the least. But posting my nipples made it a very exciting game once when on another site, I met someone who had to find me in a bar by looking for my nipples. It was absolutely incredible for the both of us (and actually funny to watch him walk around, look at tits of other women, shake his head, until he saw mine and said, "Oh shit, there is NO ONE ELSE who has nipples like THAT!" and we fucked the night away. Does it matter what someone looks like? I don't really think so - I used to be teased when I was younger for being a twig and for having huge nipples (called "Nipple Girl" or "Nipples") so looks aren't the first thing I look for. I like CLEAN - a man can be handsome and hung, but if he's smelly or has bad breath or has poor hygiene, forget it - there is no way I'd fuck him. I also like aggressive men so if I have a choice between handsome/hung/submissive versus not-so-handsome/average/aggressive, I would take the second guy!!

missy97330 47F

5/24/2005 12:13 am

I keep my picture down for discretion. But I am more than happy to email a picture or two of myself.

As far as guys, with so many cock shots, I freqently need to ask for a face photo anyway. Sorta weird seeing their member first. :sigh:

centrohabanero 57M

5/24/2005 1:43 am

I think it is more shyness than trying to hide something. I prefer shyness to those who who post a picture of someone else..LOL. Then there are those who say not posting a picture of your face is hiding something. Then there are those who post their face but not their anatomy. The moral of the commentary is we should all salute those who show their faces and their anatomy... Those of us who don't on either side are reserving something for the encounter and that is not always a negative. Something left to the imagination is often sexy and keeps ones mind full of possibilities.

artistforexploit 60M

5/24/2005 2:05 am

I think that some people are afraid they'll be recognised if they put a photo up there for all to see, it doesn't need to be of the face, but something, some indication of who you're interacting with would be nice, how else will you decide if you want to meet?

rm_4nik8_4u 61M
2501 posts
5/24/2005 3:19 am

I wouldn't do it. How would you recognize them?

rm_bluegenes51 56M
245 posts
5/24/2005 3:54 am

Bad experience.. had a typical male X-rated pic as my main photo. A "friend" let it be known in various circles that it was me in the pic... almost lost my job. I find it reasonable to send/request a pic as a step towards deciding whether or not to meet. My experience has been that most women are more interested in seeing a face pic as a prerequisit to meeting.
Very nice pix, ladies, BTW.

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
5/24/2005 10:55 am

artistforexploit my thoughts exactly i would like to see something of the person i am talking to, as in most cases chats turn into meetings.

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
5/24/2005 10:56 am

4nik8_4u I personally would like to see some naughty pictures as well as some nice ones, then you can find out if there is attraction and not waste anyones's time...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
5/24/2005 10:58 am

bluegenes51 too bad you had such a horrible experience, doesn't seem like this 'friend' was such a 'friend' after all...with friends like that who needs enemies...As long as you have a couple photo's reserved to send people if they ask...its all good...

renardcoi9 67M
323 posts
5/25/2005 11:08 pm

I think that in accepting to let one's face to be associated with one's whole profile and other very reveiling pictures of oneself anatomy is probably the best true exhibitionnist way of handling one's personnality in a place like this.
As far as starting a deeper relation with someone seen here, I would certainly be more inclined to do it with someone whowing her true self.
Hence, I see it as a must for myself as a mere form of respect for the passing by women.
For thrilling purposes now, as far as I find a big kick out of exhibitionism, I got a bigger one out of putting on a base picture with both my face and my penis with an obvious hard on.
A picture of an happy exhibitionnist.
Thank you AdultFriendFinder!

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
5/27/2005 9:22 am

renardcoi9 i'm glad you found a place that you could express yourself in a way that you wanted...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/10/2005 8:32 pm


definitley valid reasons...here are some reasons to post a pic...I don't respond to people if they don't have a pic or atleast attach one to an email...I can't help but think k whats this guy hiding...Who really wants to go for what is behind door #3...

I don't need or want to see a face pic...but i do like to see what i am meeting...whether he is hairy like Austin Powers...fat like Albert...has three nipples like chandler Bing...that sort of thing...

If someone from your professional life can recognize you from a pic of pecs to knees you might be in the wrong profession...

Why is your profile turned off...i don't even know what country you live in...

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