What are you hoping to find...  

1playfulgal 39F
7112 posts
7/8/2005 6:12 pm

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What are you hoping to find...

I personally sined up on this site hoping to meet someone for a friends with benefits situation...

I have met that person...but as long as everyone is safe...there is always room for another...

I have stopped actively searching profiles...mainly they catch my eye through my blog...That is usually where i am these days...If someone interesting/nearby contacts me i will follow through...

I'm ashamed to admit i haven't even checked my smile/hotlist in like a month...

What are yall expecting to get out of this site?

Have you been satisfied with the way it is going?

ciao all

take care

rm_wodahs69 30M
29 posts
7/9/2005 12:07 am

im just looking for someone to have a fun time with, if you know what i mean

I on the other hand check my smile/hotlist thing every other day about.

rm_usjet2 54M/41F

7/9/2005 12:56 am

You sound like one of the wise and careful type..thats always good to see once in awhile..You go girl!

Idunno135 33M

7/9/2005 1:09 am

Pretty much the same as you I would suppose. Friends with benefits.

As much as I love my friends I have now, none of them it seems are as open about sex as I am.

So far? Well I think it's been too soon to tell in my opinion.

hardtoland 29M
51 posts
7/9/2005 2:16 am

"What are yall expecting to get out of this site?"

Nothin much......I just don't have anything better to do at....2:17 in the morning, wow is that the time, seemed earlier than that.
Maybe to hear some interesting stories,

Had a blast from the past, viewed one profile, and thought she looked like an interesting person………………. she was my Ex.

A little weird ...OKay, down right disturbing, Millions of listings in the California area, and I get hers. Not sure if I'm ganna tell her or not.

What do you think I should do, tell her or just...ignore her.

artistforexploit 60M

7/9/2005 3:35 am

If you've read my blog, you'll know that I'm rather lucky to have a host of willing friends for my endeavours, but still looking to make sure I haven't missed any oppourtunities out there.
What I'm expecting from this site is to find passionate minds to share & enjoy our experiences on this road of life, friends to develop long term relationships of the metaphysical kind. There is more to love & sex than physical contact.
So far I've been fortunate to have made a few friends. Life is good.

rm_thelich 47M
1 post
7/9/2005 6:52 am

i think you are a very wise and smart girl; as you, im a guy looking for many time and searching all blogs maybe to find a nice and wise girl
what i think?... hmmm, go girl if you act as you think the world is your

spikeryder 49M

7/9/2005 7:06 am

If I'm honset i suppose i joined this site looking for fun, no strings sex.

Have i found it yet?...No

I make no secret of it, in my profile, but had one contact who asked me to talk dirty, we had a cyber sex session, which she said was great and wanted to arrange a meeting for the "real thing!" but has since gone quiet ...maybe she just couldn't go through with it..i don't know, she doesn't answer e-mails or respond to IMs, when i can see she is online. so i've given upi on her for now.

Another great lady met me, had coffee, and we keep in touch but no sexual contact.

So am I satisfied ..sexually definately not! Any Sexualy unsatisfied Girls out there in my Area? Gimme a call...no time wasters ..please..if you don't wanna go through with it leave me alone.

rm_casper0541 42M
24 posts
7/9/2005 7:07 am

i`m glad to hear someone has found what there looking for, and good luck to you!
i`m after sex, sex and more sex, as i dont get it from my wife!
i love her but i have sexual needs aswell!
a friend with benefits would be great, especialy if they have a sexual drive like mine!
all the best!

rm_8inchpleeza 39M
1 post
7/9/2005 8:03 am

just get tea bagged and smile

pussybuster78 38M
1 post
7/9/2005 9:21 am

plain and simple im to and looking for a friends w/benefits. those r the best relationships to have. u always have to b safe and that i am. i recently got my blood work done and everything is on the up and up. results where negative.maybe we can chat more. by the way i love your slight tan.

rm_Lithane 47M
4 posts
7/9/2005 9:58 am

It's grand you have found what you set out to find. Most will not, so enjoy. And being careful is the only way to go. Freinds with benefits is great. Friends first, of course. Thats just me, though. Sex is more then just physical for me.

Anyways, congrats.

neighborlyfotog 71M
4 posts
7/9/2005 10:09 am

I love exhibitionists. I shoot at least one every week and the photographs are more erotic and sensual than sexual. I would love to see more photos of you and you having fun if they are available.


1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/9/2005 10:55 am


I been slackin on that recently...but hey i figure if people really want to get my attention they can spend a couple of minutes and string together a few words...you did it...its not that hard see...lol

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/9/2005 10:56 am



some people tend to come on here with high expectations and get dissillusioned pretty quick...as long as you don't sign up expecting to find your souldmate on day 2 ithink you are safe...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/9/2005 10:59 am


are you on good terms with your ex...if so i think it would be ok to tell her you saw her profile...by doing so you are also admitting to being on this site...so keep that in mind...if...heaven forbid...she might be a little spiteful and bitter...

ciao babe

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/9/2005 11:01 am


Those are the best kind of people to meet here...friends...I have many friends on here...only a very small few i have actually met in person though...


1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/9/2005 11:07 am


too bad you have not met anyone that was sexually compatible...atleast you have met some friends here in blogland...


There seems to be a lot of that going on around here...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/9/2005 11:09 am



I agree they are the best kind of relationship...for me anyway...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/9/2005 11:12 am



I have lots more in my network albums...

rm_tango8alfa 66M
3 posts
7/9/2005 12:24 pm

u like older, mature men darlin

rm_chagi_guy 48M
87 posts
7/9/2005 1:10 pm

hummmm what am I looking for? well that all depends... I like to chat and cam if the person doesn't live close enough to meet regular. I would like to make some new friends that sometimes like to get a little naughty... I am looking for someone to go to a nude beach with and maybe some adult parties... you think you are up for it playful?
I really think we should chat... come checkout my blogs and drop me a line...

rm_DDL007 39M

7/9/2005 2:18 pm

I wanted to find a friend with benifits, or a possible mate, but mostly some fun and interaction. Would love to have some good mates to chat and interact with.

Wishing Iwas living in Canada no luck here

Im not giving up... Interested??????????????

Jerosd 47M

7/9/2005 3:06 pm

Well...my blog takes all my time from all my friends with benefits....lol

spikeryder 49M

7/9/2005 3:21 pm

Met A hot chocolate lady today so here's hopin
Love your Blog its sexy and fun, what i joined for, keep it up...I will

007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
7/9/2005 10:20 pm

I signed up 4 yrs ago just out of curiosity. Then it became a habit, then intriguing, then I started getting emails and getting hit on. I got lots of offers but they were from men who didnt appeal to me. At that point I was still faithful HAD NEVER HAD AN AFFAIR. I have to say I have only met 2 men face to face from this site(picky). The one I am seeing now has been keeping me company for 6 months now and he is such a delight to have around those once per week 3 to 4 hour sessions can become addictive, but im not complaining. I even managed to squeeze in a weekend getaway with him, "pure heaven". AdultFriendFinder has given me something to look forward too with him. Coming to the blogs everyday helps when things are not so bright.(like when shcool is out) LOL

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/9/2005 11:31 pm


Guess it depends on the man...never been with one as...mature...as you...so i couldn't say...


yes...no doubt about that...too bad we live on opposite sides of the world...well just about anyway...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/9/2005 11:33 pm


right now i am without cam...lost the driver disc and i'll be damned if i can find it to download on the internet...but otherwise...yes...yes...yes...


1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/9/2005 11:35 pm


Good luck...thanks babe...i enjoy writing...


my sentiments exactly...over there we are lucky if they read our profile all the way through...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/9/2005 11:39 pm


glad to hear this helps...its almost like a therapy for me...lets me talk about things...get them off my chest...


Awe shucks...(she blushes profusely)...nah...takes a lot to make me blush...but i do appreciate those special few people on here that make blogland a happy place to visit everyday...

rm_seamus679 50M

7/10/2005 2:12 am

I like reading your blog..... you ask intriguing questions.... I joined a number of years ago from another site and did not stray until two years ago.... now I can't get enough... i have enjoyed a number of beautiful ladies from this site... friends with benefits... and it has been amazing... every encounter is passionate, heart beating wildly in anticipation.... what will happen next.... how will it happen next... where.... strolling in a park.... seeing you sitting at the picnic table reading a book... you look up and smile... then..... where did that swing set go....

danteszippo 52M
3882 posts
7/10/2005 4:33 am

looking for erotic chat and a way to meet women and explore sexual fantasies...so far, some great chat pals, but many chat and I never see them again. I like this as a safe fun way to meet women and share their intimate thoughts. The web can be exciting sometimes when you click with a really sexual woman and step inside her mind. From there who knows...it's all kind of exciting on many sexual levels. I do love their great photos...what a turn on.

alice593 71M

7/10/2005 12:08 pm

My wife had an affair, which she told me about, so she said I could have a woman friend. So I was looking for a woman to befriend and maybe have some extra benefits also with the friendship.

rm_bedlam247 45M

7/10/2005 5:56 pm

I originally got on here looking to hook up. Yeah, like that happens much. Anyway, now I just get a kick outta whats on here. I find your blogs fun to read. Every now and then put in my 2 cents. Plus, your pretty damb hot and nice to look at. Thanks for the entertainment. Your friend w/bennies is a lucky man

rm_dracco64 52M
34 posts
7/11/2005 1:25 am

I hope you still come back and check out this blog ... I too am looking to find a "friend with benefits" ... but haven't had much luck. I have been hanging out at your blog the most (99% of the time I am here), but I haven't been around for awhile, just been too busy with work. I am nearby and often wonder if we have ever passed each other ... either on the street, at the one movie theatre or at your favourite place to rent movies ... by the way what place is that?

rm_chagi_guy 48M
87 posts
7/11/2005 4:45 pm

Well damn girl... get one... we have got to hook up soon... before summer is over...

juck_75 41M
6 posts
7/11/2005 5:07 pm

Good question I had no idea what I wnated from this site... but I think i will post a bit more often as it turns out im more happy chating about sex than actually bothering to contact anyone.

Very weird men outnumber girls by about 10 to 1 in my area and thats a shame as i hoped the world was more liberal than that.

My local area is smaller than I expeceted anmy now I dont think i will ever meet anyone local... could be wrong but they just aint there. Still greatto read we are all human

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/11/2005 11:41 pm


Yes life is good here in blogland...you can learn an amazing amount about people from the stuff they chooose to write about...


Chatting has never been one of my goals...i've tried it...but its just not the smae as the real thing...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/11/2005 11:45 pm


that is an interesting arrangement...


I'm glad you enjoy reading...i look forward to reading you two cents worth...


1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/11/2005 11:47 pm


Probably have atleast passed on another this isn't a huge place after all...i am still waiting for some sort of photo...sorry babe...but that is one of my rules...i would really like a chance to see you...


1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/11/2005 11:50 pm


I never make it back east...you ever out west?


true statistic website wide...men outnumber the women...is that because there aren't as many women interested in sex...who knows...maybe we have an easier time finding it sans website than you...I dunno...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
8/8/2005 11:43 pm


hmm...i like that...go in with no specific goals and what ever happens...happens...

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