Myth: Casual sex is meaningless, animalistic, and only about sexual gratification.  

1playfulgal 39F
7112 posts
5/26/2005 10:46 pm

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Myth: Casual sex is meaningless, animalistic, and only about sexual gratification.


When I've had sex recently, it's been with people I'm attracted to, but for various reasons couldn't see myself in a relationship with. Yet that doesn't mean that our sex has only been about getting off. In fact, I've been surprised at how profound these brief connections have proven. I usually sleep with people I truly care about, and while we may be in it for physical pleasure, that doesn't mean I leave my heart at the bedroom door.

EroticallyRapt 55M
336 posts
5/26/2005 11:33 pm

Of course you didn't leave your heart. None of us can, It's an integral part of who we are and is a part of every experinece that we have. People who have "casual sex" (makes it sound like a laid back, no exertion activity ) are people that understand the difference between lust and love and the fact that they don't always accompany each other in equal amounts. ER


1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
5/27/2005 9:18 am

Damn EroticallyRapt from what i can tell so far you and i are like teo pieces of the same puzzle...we thing of things is a very similar way...


rm_pgthkck4u 47M
115 posts
5/27/2005 10:34 am

I agree with that, I have had several "relationships" that were more or less purely sexual. 90% of the time I would get a call because she was horny and needed some, but she would also call just because she had a really shitty day and needed a comfortable voice to talk to. I like to belive that I am available to help fufill all desires


mnfun952 102M

5/27/2005 9:45 pm

Thank you for pointing out these Myths... we all have our adventures for various reasons and YES, they can be quite meaninful, even if not sustained. I think it's extremely rare for people to have sex PURELY for physical reasons... there has to be some other connection - if not, then why do people talk about intelligence and a good sense of humor as a requirement for even chatting (which, presumeably occurs before 'hooking up')?

Have Fun, Be Nice, Play Safe.

MnFun


PerthPete 50M
124 posts
5/29/2005 6:33 am

Hi all, I have been on AdultFriendFinder now for about 2 years. In that time I have met, face to face, about 7 women. I have not had sex with all of these women, because for whatever reason, one or both of us have made the decision that there was not the necessary spark, sufficient for us to enjoy being intimate with each other. I think this applies to most of us, we want to enjoy ourselves when we share our beds and bodies and intimacies, and part of enjoying ourselves is wanting our partner to enjoy themselves. Maybe it I can describe it as "Quality over Quantity". So, if you subscribe to that thought, then you have to care about the person you are with, because it improves the quality.
Peter.


1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
5/29/2005 10:39 pm

thanks for your thoughts mnfun952 and PerthPete its nice to know that others think the same way...


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