1playfulgal 39F
7112 posts
8/3/2005 11:05 pm

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I went out with this guy a couple of months ago...i think we went out three times...i slept with him and it sucked...never talked to him again...

A couple of days ago i got a message on my Cell phone from his girlfriend...yes thats right his girlfriend...

She started out all friendly saying she had just got my email...(lots of trust in that relationship and for good reason i guess)...and that she was glad we were keeping in touch...(he must have lied about who i was)...

and this is where it got nasty...

she said that she had been with him for two years...then told me and i Quote "So back off bitch"

I so wish i knew who she was so i could tell her all the lovely things he had done...that he picked me up in a mall...that when asked...he said he had been single for 5 months and that it had been a nasty breakup...


damn i must be gullible...but i had no reason not to believe him...

rm_unlistedone 65M
2718 posts
8/3/2005 11:16 pm

Nothing gullable about that, playful. He just lied. How would you know? Not to worry though. I have a feeling the gf is the jealous and "get even" type. He'll slip up and she will tan his hide to the wall.
Moving on through life...

f7south 50M

8/3/2005 11:30 pm

And the sex sucked! Damn, that wasn't worth getting up in the morning for. At least you don't have men posing as women talking to you (read my blog for full story), so I can understand the gullible part, but it's not your falt. That is just the way some men are: missing something from her, so I'll get that from another one. Just can't trust anyone; but as you said you had no reason not to believe. Stay strong and keep your head up.

rm_bedlam247 45M

8/3/2005 11:31 pm

What an asshole! It could be worse, you could be his girlfriend. Nothin left to do but smile Keep your head up, we're not all assholes.

007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
8/3/2005 11:42 pm

If she got your email then write her back and tell her evertything, and I do mean everything even about the mall. Then end the note by saying,Oh by the way "everytime he kisses you, it is my pussy you are tasting on his lips" then that will really piss in her morning breakfast.(women hate that shit, and hate knowing their man was with another woman while doing her, especially when they dont know that they are cheating) I am giving an evil grin here

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
8/3/2005 11:44 pm


she must be the jealous type to have gone through his emails from months ago...and what an idiot he was for not deleting them...

anyhow...thanks for making me feel better...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
8/3/2005 11:46 pm


I don't get men...don't understand em...and don't really want to...

I have enough trouble understanding myself...

blog on

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
8/3/2005 11:48 pm


Oh i was plenty pissed off when i turned my ceel phone on and played hte message...that is why i didn't write a blog about it right away...there would have been too much foul language to be allowed on here...

BTW...i know you aren't all assholes...but its the bastards that ruin it for you good guys...

Theflinkychick 105F

8/3/2005 11:50 pm

I agree, he's already wasted enough of your time. Don't let him or her have a second more of your time, they aren't worth it!

Not all who wander are lost.

lifeisablast333 53M

8/4/2005 12:09 am

what a freakin bummer. it's guys like that we all want to smack down. well you said the sex was bad, and he is a lier, and a cheat, i say never think of the pig again, and let his long time gal pal find out for herself.

danteszippo 52M
3884 posts
8/4/2005 12:53 am

what a piece of crap that guy is. If you gotta lie to get laid, you're a sorry pathetic motherfucker. He probably lies about his dick size too.

Tala4u2 54M  
2957 posts
8/4/2005 1:24 am

Playful seems to me that you are not the only one he lied to. I wonder what load of B/S he told his loving G/F about you!? I see heartbreak on the horizon or maybe one day she will decide to remove his offending member from him.

Tala, Wizard of The Kingdom of BooBoBia, DEITY,

rm_play252 48M

8/4/2005 1:48 am

playful I'm sorry that asshole fucked you around, it always seem's that the assholes get there foot in the door with A fine looking lady like you & fuck it up for us guy's that are thankful for just getting to chat with you much less then sleeping with you,I just hope oneday
you pick A guy more like me that respects women more & that can show you how nice making Love can be, someone that has feeling's

rm_unlistedone 65M
2718 posts
8/4/2005 1:51 am

I'm glad I can make you feel better. Anytime...

Didn't delete and should went all the way back? Playful, was this man capable of even having an intelligent conversation? (Sorry, he must have been, or you wouldn't have even been talking with him.)
I like straightten's idea. She is always a straight shooter. I would never want to be on her bad side. Shoot him, and her down like they deserve. But then again, walking away from it would be easy to do.

rm_CCLordDamien 40M/38F
77 posts
8/4/2005 2:01 am

actually, Playful, And speaking as one, Men ARE assholes, it's a condition that comes along with the double x chromosomes. Just some of us can overcome our baser nature better than others. but i have to say that's more like human nature, since i had the same thing happen to me several years ago. girl i'd been seeing for months HUSBAND slugged me in the jaw. No preamble, nothing, walked up out of a crowd and slugged me. WHen HE woke up (training kicked in. i don't even know what i did) he told me what was happening (had to since he was in handcuffs and the cops a friend of mine) and i explained how she came on to me, told me she was single, etc.

if it's any consolation, she might have gotten to you after she reamed him. Or it might be your fault because he could never do such a thing

Inominate563 45M
47 posts
8/4/2005 3:22 am

not really much to say.. i know you're pissed. that's natural. but it's not your fault, in any way. but you know that. don't let it get you down. you're better than that, don't forget that.

skiguy4u2003 57M
1 post
8/4/2005 4:20 am

Well Playfulgal...not all man are assholes...those most are. His loss though. He will have to deal with that bitch for awhile (if not forever) and she deserves the asshole (I guess)...but you certainly don't. I know its hard sometimes when you just need a good fuck...but it doesn't mean we have to comprimise our standards. Today I am horny as hell...but I won't just go out and bang I may just end up jerking off...yet again... Keep the faith sister

rm_funguy1xoxo 40M
4 posts
8/4/2005 6:53 am

that's a dam shame

rm_DDL007 39M

8/4/2005 7:26 am

What a bastard!! He lied to get what he wanted..If i were you I would call back the number on your mobil (cell), cheak your inbox and there will be a number..and tell her exactly what happened and what her turly beloved did, and is probably still doing.

I hate that, gives us nice guys a bad name. If you want give me the number and I'll call


spikeryder 49M

8/4/2005 7:55 am

Not gullible, trusting and that's no weakness.
My last GF was a female version of that guy. I trusted what she said, wanted to believe she was happy to be with me. Turned out she only wanted me for as long as i was useful, she was studying Enlish, I helped her pass her Exams. When she started to cool alittle I thoght it was exam pressure...Fact was she had been fucking a married man for six months whilst we were together! Now she wanted to "stay friends" with me but be with him exclusively..
so playful I been had too..shitty isn't it?
I understand your anger I've been there...

ByteChaser2 52M

8/4/2005 9:02 am

It's not your fault he couldn't be honest. Best you can hope for is to find out before it's too late.

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
8/4/2005 9:30 am


the only reason that she got my email is because she was searching through her boyfriend's email account...if i emailed that account he would delete it before she ever got the chance to read it...


i forgot about him long before i got that phone call...i'm not worried...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
8/4/2005 9:32 am


she obviously suspects something already or she wouldn't be going through his old emails...and if she wants to believe ever lie that piece of crap hands her then that's her business...I will not interfere in their life anymore...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
8/4/2005 9:34 am


he was actually very well hung...just goes to prove the theory that size doesn't matter...i think that he relied on his size his whole life and didn't learn how to use it...I agree that if you need to lie to get laid then you should not fuck someone and risk spreading your stupidity

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
8/4/2005 9:37 am


From what she said in the message i can only assume that he told her that we were old friends and that we were going out for coffee...I think she just phoned to warn me off...I'm not sure that she knows we had sex...i hope that she has an idea about her slime ball boyfriend i hate the idea that there is a woman out there that is so stupid...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
8/4/2005 11:12 am


geberally i pickem better than that...i am not a loser/asshole magent generally...but i guess there are exceptions to every rule...That was, to my knowledge, the first time that has ever happened...and hopefully the last...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
8/4/2005 11:15 am


I feel that leaving it alone is the way to go...I have done enough damage to the relationship and i don't care to do anymore...There are women out there that thrive in relationships that are bad for them...who am i to judge what is good for this woman...

The relationship will fall apart on its own in due time...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
8/4/2005 11:18 am


The back off bitch part of her message leads me to believe that she thought i was trying to lead him know what they is blind...


thanks for the support

rm_asian5in 39M
19 posts
8/4/2005 12:19 pm

Ah, such is life.

Some guys will do anything for great sex. Sorry about the fallout.

smackyman 46M
3845 posts
8/4/2005 3:03 pm

As slimey as this guy was (and bad in bed) he did have one good quality. He had taste enough to recognize you for the attractive, fun woman that you are. Glad to hear that you already forgot about the guy. Take a moment to smile for a bit because you know that this kind of thing will come around eventually and bite him in the ass...sounds like he is halfway there with his lady checking up on him!

rm_YGB_fran 33F
1434 posts
8/4/2005 3:13 pm that just sucks have some jealous girlfriend leaving bitchy messages on your cell. If she's gone that far to snoop and then call you, she knows exactly what he was up to. At least you aren't with him anymore and enduring bad mindless sex! lol

She's probably enjoying the drama of fighting for her man and has no life anyway so don't waste your time responding. Let her go away with the jerk!

Take care.

YGB_fran muuaah muuaah

TibetKrebsBoson 43M
21 posts
8/4/2005 6:24 pm

Well I cant say much to this topic. I find life alot easier to be honest and up front... find out in the beginning what the side lines are where they are set. A) you dont loose months of both your time and energy. and Lies take to much memory space up.. my mind is better used for other things like dirty perverted thoughts.

The real reason I'm in this Blog is because I seen a really great ass and decided to investigate further. And that perfect ass belongs to 1playfulgal... Ok im done, well atleast my post is. the dirty thoughts still remain

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
8/4/2005 10:05 pm


Luckily not all men are like that...our species would die out if that were the case...either that or there would be a de-evolution of the species...


I thought so too...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
8/4/2005 10:08 pm


hmmm...i choose to leave it alone...all will come out in due time...some woman want assholes...maybe this woman is one of them...


I guess we all go through it at some point...what should surprise me is that i have lived this long without it happening...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
8/4/2005 10:10 pm


good and learn eh...


I can see why that would anger you...but atleast you can be happy that you didn't sink to his level...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
8/4/2005 10:14 pm


well he sure seemed to be enjoying himself...but man he was bad...couldn't find his way around a pussy if he had a map and a flashlight...


thanks for the sweet compliment in a not so sweet post...

blog on

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
8/4/2005 10:16 pm


that is a good way to think about it...that is what i already decided...thanks for confirming it for me...


thanks for the compliment...have fun with your dirty thoughts...

StickShiftTruck 31M

8/4/2005 10:33 pm

just shoot him, not a kill shot, but just jim him something to think about. take out a knee or something.

nightguy1961 55M
4866 posts
8/4/2005 11:48 pm

Sorry that happened, playful. I can't add anymore than what everybody else has been saying.

Prince00gauge 35M
3 posts
8/5/2005 10:31 am

well at least u weren't his girlfriend...and myself i would have mentioned to her that he had been
"single" for about 5 months

rm_Never911 59M
125 posts
8/5/2005 12:12 pm

The e-mail of the species is more deadly than the mail.... [blog Never911]

rm_NEgurl1 32M

8/5/2005 12:13 pm

all i can say is this guy was a jerk for not being honest with you and that you're better than them

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
8/5/2005 11:50 pm


I could think of somewhere else i would rather shoot



1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
8/5/2005 11:53 pm


Yeah i thought about that too...but i can't get ahold of her...and i don't really want to at this point...



Thanks...i think so too...kisses

myregularstop 51M
3 posts
8/6/2005 1:04 am

Better just to let it lie... anyway, she is the stupid one. She is obviously in denial is she got mad at you and not him...

rm_Trucker3030 63M
151 posts
8/7/2005 1:11 pm

Truth be known, she probably isn't a goddess like you are, playful. It may well be that she's a loser in the looks dept. and simply feels that she can't compete. Maybe that's why she showed such hostility. I agree with regularstop. She's in denial and got pissed at the wrong person. She should have been mad at the scuzball she's dating. By the way, as you can see here, many people are behind you in this, because we know you much better than she does.

rm_fireaxe1818 41M
27 posts
10/28/2005 9:44 pm

yalor bastard cheated on u
some more that bich even scold u
u relax take it easy ....

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