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Fisting: The act of inserting ones fist into either the vagina and/or rectum resulting in sexual pleasure.
According to Sex SexTutor.com, there are seven sure-fire steps to a full-on fisting:
1. Getting her ready:
Make sure she's relaxed, comfortable, and most of all turned on. When a woman is aroused her vagina and all related muscles are more relaxed.
2. Use lube:
"Even the wettest snatch can use some extra juice during fisting," SexTutor.com,proclaims. Obviously for such a serious endeavor you don't want to go generic guys. You can go generic on breakfast cereal...you can NOT go generic on lube. They also suggest using latex gloves to cut down on friction.
3. Star slow:
For the love of all that is holy do not try to slam your fist in there. Start out with one finger, then two, then three, and so forth. While having no experience in this myself, I would assume (being a woman) that rubbing/licking her clit would help during this process. SexTutor.com,goes on to tell us that there could be several "stretching sessions." So, if at first you don't succeed...
4. Duck inside:
"As you add more fingers to your partner’s cunt, squeeze them together so your index and pinkie fingers are under your middle and ring fingers. As you push further inside, tuck your thumb under your fingers. (Imagine you’re making shadow puppets and trying to do a duck.) This makes your hand into a wedge shape that allows you to gradually stretch her open as you press on. Apply steady but slow pressure."
5. Let her lead:
Let her tell you when she wants more. Ladies...SPEAK UP! Now is a great example of your true communication skills with one another...whether you are in a romantic relationship or merely FBs there should always be good communication between sexual partners. She should be in control of when, how long, how much more, etc.
6. All the way in:
The knuckles are the widest part of the hand and therefor the most difficult to get past that barrier. "She may be able to help by 'bearing down' as if giving birth. Once your knuckles slip past the ring of muscles around the vaginal entrance, you’ll find your whole hand enveloped in warm, wet pussy. Now roll your hand into a fist."
Fisting is different for everyone. One woman may want you to make gentle "fucking motions" with your fist while another may want you to only play with her clit while your fist remains still. Ask her what she wants and be open and imaginative in trying different methods.
Note: Make sure your hands are clean and your nails neatly trimmed and filed.
WHAT THEY DON'T TELL YOU:
SexTutor.com,also includes these notes of warning:
"Fisting can cause vaginal muscle and tissue injuries if you go too fast or too hard"
"A few words of caution before you roll up your sleeves and plunge in: fisting can result in injury to the fistee if not done properly. Trust and communication between partners is essential--and tons of lube help a lot, too. Respect your partner’s limits and pain threshold. The following guide is intended for consenting adult partners who wish to engage in this act, and we assume no responsibility for possible injuries caused by or to those attempting it."
I SAY: If a website is putting up a disclaimer... BE CAREFUL because clearly someone has been injured before.
GOOD LUCK AND HAPPY FISTING
11/6/2005 11:58 am
I have had it done to me and it is wonderfull. Feels so good to feel |
a hand slide in and go in deep. It is like cumming a hunred times.
Ps I am a guy and it is my favorite turn on...