Traditional Asian thinking  

1charlieusa 48M   
29 posts
6/27/2005 2:37 pm

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Traditional Asian thinking

I know there is a mentality in traditional Asian women to think every relationship should end in marriage, but it's really sad to believe that.

When 2 people give 100%, that is all that matters. Sometimes giving 100% can create a long lasting relationship, and sometimes giving 100% only creates a relationship that last for only a few days, weeks, or months.

Some of my relationships only lasted a few months but since we both gave 100%, we have no regets... only happy memories. Happiness is not time driven. It can last 10 minutes, 10 years or 10 decades. I appreciate all lengths of happiness!

I believe that relationship are a lot like sports.... just because you give 100%, it does not mean you will automatically win. Giving 100% only provides everyone an OPPORTUNITY TO WIN!

So if you wanna win, quit holding back. You gotta take a chance, and give 100%.. I will

TheDodger8 45M

6/27/2005 5:46 pm

hmm... I like it.

penelope474 46F

6/28/2005 8:09 pm

Hi Charlie,

Great sentiment.


P.S. Not all Asian women think relationships should end in marriage.

1charlieusa 48M  

6/29/2005 4:51 pm

sorry girls... but I didn't mean to say all asian girls... I was trying to say "traditional asian women". And trust me, I've chatted with enough of them over the years to know this is true. It is sad to see many beautiful women 30 and over still untaken.... some of them waiting for their first boyfriend! I'm always shocked everytime a woman tells me this. And what is more sad... this type of woman scares me the most. If you are sweet, beautiful, over 30, and still unexperienced.. then you must be looking for the perfect guy, and that is certainly NOT me.

_HugsNkisses_ 41M

7/2/2005 2:17 pm

hmmm...i like it too.Good post.

1charlieusa 48M  

7/3/2005 9:47 pm

A.... when you turn off your profile, I feel lonely here on AdultFriendFinder.

33763 posts
7/15/2007 4:28 pm

very wise words from a sage ..

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