It's been a while  

1blacktyger 46M
25 posts
8/25/2005 8:05 am

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It's been a while

OK, so it has been more than a month since I have posted anything here... Not much has been going on and I really haven't been able to get online much due to work and other real world stuff that had to be tended to.
Anyway, I have yet to meet anyone RT off of AdultFriendFinder. I have talked with a couple, and thought there was some hope, but chats have faded and chances at meeting seem to have gone away. I try to be on the Chat program whenever I can, but it seems that the only people that try to chat with me are other guys.
Now, I am all for making friends, but I am not really up for meeting a guy one on one for sex. Just my preference. Kinda gets frustrating when you could get all these guys (if I was into it), but no females interested or serious enough. I tried the chat rooms, but there seems to be a clique in there and hard to get words in otherwise....
Now I agree I don't have my face pic on my profile, but I am happy to provide it... there is one in my album for my friends, but getting females to join that list isn't the easiest thing to do either... I guess I need to work on my "game" or show up at one of the meet & screw parties that is going on, even tho I am not really into that, just to get more interest.
Anyway, any ideas would be welcome to help me in my quest ladies.
OK, so this seemed like a whiny little entry, but really I am not whining, just lookin for ideas.

slightly_sexy8 38F
314 posts
1/7/2006 12:36 am

some of the chat rooms are very cliquey, i agree, but what you have to remember is that they are public forumns and you have as much a right to be speaking in them as anyone else so just speak up, make a few comments and people will start to respond.

i also noticed your comment about people not accepting the invitations for networks. the invites do show up if you look at that section but to honest i don't really even look in mine. from my point of view i wouldn't want to join the network of someone i didn't know at all so why would i even respond to some random invitation from a stranger and why would someone invite someone that they hadn't even ever spoken or corresponded with?

slightly_sexy8 38F
314 posts
1/7/2006 12:38 am

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Adam69Eva2005 47F

6/15/2006 6:52 am

I read et at first ur blog about invitations , and after here ... I believe I answered .
Now ... chat rooms - yes , I agree , they some times can be very cliquey , but ... reading what ppl saying , and answering in general or maybe some general comments , would make u cough ppl attention .
Not only ppl which talking - there are many which just sitting and lurking ... till they`ll find that someone ...

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