How do you maintain the secret?  

1bigboy51 65M
27 posts
3/23/2006 6:13 pm

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How do you maintain the secret?


I am curious, there are a lot of members who are married but indicate that they are very active sexually and have some very unique interests. How do you keep the communications, meetings, times away, semen issues, smells or lipstick etc. unnoticed? I am interested in how you guys do it.

rm_spicyspirit 66F

5/6/2006 10:40 pm

I don't have the answer you're looking for because I'm a single woman. But I'm curious about why you want to know.


1bigboy51 65M

5/7/2006 8:12 pm

In my sexual life, I have found that many married individuals want to engage with me. Culturally I have noticed that this can be dangerous. I am quickly approaching the serious stage of a relationship where as my partner my have an idea, but does not know for sure that I test the gender waters. I have always appreciated the sensuality of both genders for many years. Ideally would be to meet a woman who is also bi-active, my new term.


1bigboy51 65M

5/7/2006 8:14 pm

Spicyspirt, being single really has nothing to do with it. If you are in a heterosexual relationship and your mate does not know about any other sexual desires that you harbor it could be an interesting revelation.


rm_spicyspirit 66F

5/17/2006 8:29 pm

So this is a question of how much to tell a partner? And.....your partner is not as open minded as you are? Hmmmm, is it worth your time to stay with someone who may not be as broad minded as you are? Just thinking out loud here.


looking4u12555 61M
1 post
6/4/2006 1:11 am

There are a lot more of us out there than your realize. My wife knows and lets me experience my pleasure as long as she is involved. That way it's not cheating.


1bigboy51 replies on 6/4/2006 4:14 pm:
That is cool. Ideally, that is the type of relationship I would like to have. I would like to see her do him with a stap on.

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