How many fakers are really out there?  

1_to_play_with 43M
46 posts
5/19/2006 6:20 pm

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How many fakers are really out there?

The other day i was in IMC chatting (via our joint profile) and met a girl who expressed some initial interest in us.
Let me tell you, her profile photo was fucking hot! So naturally you get excited don't you, thinking "maybe she can join us".
Anyway, eventually i had to go to work, so ended chat, although we have exchanged emails. asked for another photo, have sent ours anyway with positive feedback, but no return photo. Hmmmm
considering the nudity in the shot, i couldn't imagine her having an issue with sending a normal photo anyway.

Didn't think too much of it at the time, until i told my partner about it that night. We looked at profile photo again and i said "it almost looks TOO good a photo now doesn't it, as in a professional porn shot".
We started to have doubts as to how real this person was or how true the photo was.

Hypothetical situation, has anyone ever had this happen? :
You meet a "couple" online and make plans to meet only to hear at the last moment it is the guy only who will show up. (a girl doing this is possible i guess but pretty unlikely)
Makes some lame excuse about his lady not making it for whatever reason, hope you don't mind he says. Does this happen?

I have a saying: if you can imagine it, it has probably happened somewhere, within the realms of possibilty of course.
i guess time will tell, but it certainly makes you wary doesn't it. (Still no return photo or message.)
Have heard of other stories here and you have to wonder how many fakers are really out there.
It's a shame not everyone can approach this with genuine honesty......

Ubermik 49M
209 posts
5/19/2006 6:58 pm

Its quite common for men to use extremely hot female photos on sites either to get chatting erotically to other men who are straight for a quite unfathomable reason, or more commonly to get to talk down n dirrty to lesbians and couples who will often not want to talk to single men at all

So I would guess its far more common than people realise and the stunning 25 year old 3 hole golf course with pert tits named Suzanna that you think is getting wet from the conversation you think you are talking to is probably a 45 year old overwieght, trekkie virgin brick later from manchester who still lives with his parents and is cranking one off into the sock he took off last night lol

1_to_play_with 43M

5/19/2006 7:43 pm

great comment thanks, particularly liked the closing sentence ! lmao

louandal2 65M/61F

5/21/2006 12:24 pm

Well you have to hand it to anyone who can get their chat client to stay up for more than a few hours - Flash or Java, they both suck.

1_to_play_with 43M

5/21/2006 5:10 pm

lol had a few issues with it them have you? i must admit to finding the chat systems problematic too. A lot of lag sometimes...

imsohorny19822 35F
1728 posts
5/21/2006 5:22 pm

1_to_play_with > there are just so many fakes on this site its not funny!! Trust me, i've been conned by a few i will admit. There was a so called chick on here a while ago who seemed normal in the begining then things were not adding up, she/he/they were making plans to meet people and were not showing up, leaving the other person waiting. She had arranged to meet me for a coffee and a chat and backed out and another friend of mine from the site had the same done to her!

Many people had said to me that she was a fake, but i didn't believe them until she posted new profile pics. Was convinced from them that she was a fake, they looked like pics taken from a porn site and later on a guy a chat to said that he had found the pics on a porn site. I still dont know whether this person was male or female, but she had many people sucked in by His/her/their act and by her full of shit stories she was posting in the blog.

Im very wary of people now and dont like chatting online if i dont know a person. I like to meet someone for a coffee and a chat to see what they are like in person. Then at least you know what you have to work with and if they dont show, well then i guess you know where you stand!


1_to_play_with 43M

5/22/2006 12:13 pm

yes you are not wrong. Oh well i guess it was only a matter of time before it happened to me. Now I'm that much less of a newbie!
Thanks for your input At least I can tell YOU are someone real lol

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