Things on AFF That Annoy Us.....  

1Virgo1Gemini 42M/51F
9 posts
5/7/2006 10:28 am

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Things on AFF That Annoy Us.....


Figured it had been a while since I pulled my soapbox out and vented, so, I guess I am overdue. Anyhow, having been on AdultFriendFinder about a month now, we have discovered a few things that annoy us.....to increase my feelings of self importance, I've decided to put them down here...

So, consider this advanced warning, this blog will likely seem like a bit of a rant and a wee bit caustic at times....

1 - People that send us network invites when we've never emailed them, chatted with them or talked to them in any form. We go to look at their profile, and, 'surprise' they have nothing in their network to share. I mean, if you get off on seeing pics of us, at least just come out and say it....random network invites from unknown folks with nothing to share, not a favorite of ours.

2 - I've ranted about this before, but, the sheer abundance of one line emails we get from guys with nothing but a sentence, and, a cock shot. For some unknown reason, these all seem to suggest we should strongly think about hooking up with the mystery man behind the cock shot ASAP.....uhhhh......no thanks

3 - People that take 'NO' as a personal slight against them. We're not going to be for everyone, and, everyone is not going to be for us. If we say 'No thanks' to your offer - move on, don't suddenly use it as a reason to lash out at us, or, start sending nasty emails or name calling.

4 - People that lie. Pretty self explanatory, but, when or if we finally get to chatting, and, that is when you suddenly tell us that, your wife is not really into this (even though your profile says couple) or, even worse, she doesn't know you want to do this. Stop and think about it, we've just caught you in a lie about something pretty important, why would we suddenly want to consider bringing you into our bedroom or our lives in any form....if you can lie to a spouse or partner, I am fairly sure that lying to us would not be hard to do.

Well, I feel a bit better, and, sorry for the overly bitter tone....don't get us wrong, we are enjoying our time on AdultFriendFinder, and, have had a chance to email and chat with some great people, but, we also noticed a pattern of things that were annoying us.....and, me being a big mouth, I felt a need to articulate.....that's the beauty of the Internet, it is like my own version of free therapy.....until next time, take care and have fun!

LilSquirt_4mfm 67M/67F
3394 posts
5/7/2006 10:51 am

"yer hot, wanna fuck" (a cum panied bi the usual cockshot)

lol ... ya, get lots o those ....

iv'e decided to just tell them in profile that i dont open e-mail unless ive seen him on my blog .. that separates the good ones a lot more from the chafe .. if he wont read about me on my blog, and is not up to posting publicly for his 1st message to me ...i dont wanna know him.

if he is for real, he will. ..... my newest strategy .. lol

LilJessicaSQuirt


LilSquirt_4mfm 67M/67F
3394 posts
5/7/2006 10:52 am


"yer hot, luv to lick yer legs ..wanna fuck" (a cum panied bi the usual cockshot)

lol ... ya, get lots o those ....

iv'e decided to just tell them in profile that i dont open e-mail unless ive seen him on my blog .. that separates the good ones a lot more from the chafe .. if he wont read about me on my blog, and is not up to posting publicly for his 1st message to me ...i dont wanna know him.

if he is for real, he will. ..... my newest strategy .. lol

LilJessicaSQuirt


1Virgo1Gemini replies on 5/7/2006 11:12 am:
LOL on your opening line - sadly, it sounds like a few of the emails we've received.

rm_Lottie_Dah 68F
53 posts
5/7/2006 11:18 am

I think you're entitled. Unfortunately, it's not uncommon to experience such things on these sites.

Try to look at it as them doing you a favor. They quickly eliminate themselves from being a good match without you having to spend a lot of time checking them out.


1Virgo1Gemini replies on 5/7/2006 12:24 pm:
Suppose that would be finding the silver lining in the situation - lol....

Spiritswilling 63M

5/7/2006 11:28 am

Some people, men or women, will never learn etiquette on how to approach people. You buy em books and buy em books but they sit and tear out the pages.


1Virgo1Gemini replies on 5/7/2006 12:25 pm:
lol - Is it then wrong to want to smack them upside the head with the book if they still don't learn?

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