rm_1SweetBitch 55F
3114 posts
6/8/2006 10:04 pm

I have recently read that many feel guilt for masturbating and also don't like talking about it. Masturbating for me is a wonderful thing that I do every day and feel no guilt for.

The first time I ever had a orgasm it was through masturbation and it scared the hell out of me. When I had the orgasm my body began to shake uncontrollably and this feeling came over me like I have never felt before. Every since that day I have been hooked...line...and sinker.

When I masturbate I only do clit stimulation and I don't penetrate unless I am really trying to turn on my man. For me exploring my body is a beautiful thing. It is not something I would do at a park with kids but it is something I would do in my backyard.

Watching my man do it is a huge turning for me...there is something about a man I am with pleasuring himself in front of me that just turns me on. If there are really people out there that do not masturbate I feel that they are missing something very beautiful. I know many say they don't only because the guilt they feel for enjoying themselves...this is a shame. Your body is your own it...what others feel about the way you use it should be no concern to you. Because one masturbates does not mean they can't find a just means they enjoy their bodies.

I have a man that will give me sex anytime I want it and I still masturbate because nobody can make me feel the way I can make myself feel. I am not saying that the real thing is not the best...I am just saying masturbation is a wonderful thing and not something to be embarrassed of.

No Day Is So Bad It Can't Be Fixed With Great Sex!

1 SweetBitch

rm_OFOB 61M
66 posts
6/16/2006 9:24 am

We are always being told to get more exercise by the government and a cock is in fact just another muscle that should be exercised regularly.

That's the male excuse anyway for masturbating. And why do women masturbate? The look of intense pleasure on their faces is reason enough.

Keep on polishing the salami lads and keep stroking that clit ladies.


rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/16/2006 9:50 pm:
Masturbation works a womans muscles causing her to have a real tight pussy

SpaceRangerNJ 55M
4687 posts
6/13/2006 9:09 am

Started when I was 11. Never stopped. I do have the guilty feeling sometimes but not about the fact that I am pleasuring myself. Not sure exactly where the feelings of guilt come from.
Had a woman give me a hand job once and it felt great.
Never watched a woman masturbate live and in person.
More for my list to do before I die. It's seems to be growing the more I wander around this site. The list and other things that is. lol.
Never done the "mutual masturbation" thing either.
Add another one.

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/13/2006 9:24 am:
Damn, you need to get busy with that are way behind and need to get started. There is so much out there to experience and just need to get started sweetie

yourpleasuro2 72M
12 posts
6/10/2006 12:08 pm

your right masturbation is a personal thing and there should be no do you feel when your man masturbates you.

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/10/2006 8:30 pm:
I also enjoy that...I also give him a hand job then drink his load...yummmmmmmmmy

rm_JoeyD1214 59M
398 posts
6/10/2006 11:53 am

SweetB - totally agree with you about the masturbation! I love to watch a lady masturbate - so erotic! Never been asked to do it for a lady, but it sounds like you and
really think it is erotic and since you are 2 of my favorite ladies - gotta try it. Maybe we can try it together sometime!

I would love to hear more about your favorite ways to masturbate and how you make yourself feel good.

What happened to your pic? Did you check out the post I put on mzhunyhole about you?

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/10/2006 8:28 pm:
I changed my main picture and just noticed it is still pending. I did go to mzhunyholes blog and saw you added me as a team member...thank you.

Whispersoftly5 52F
15176 posts
6/10/2006 8:53 am

LOL! I love masturbation and talk of it often in my blog. While in the midst of my orgasm deprivation wager I've got going (don't ask - a really dumb bet) I got to watch my friend masturbate. It was the first time I'd watched a man do this and it was very erotic!


rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/10/2006 9:01 am:
Watching a man feel himself and turn himself on is so erotic...I totally agree with you.

puntachueca 105M

6/9/2006 8:18 pm

I started when I was very young...and took a load of guilt tripping for it.
I do not see anything wrog with it now. But my ex had a major issue with that...
In my perfect world, actually, you described it perfectly...

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/9/2006 8:44 pm:
There are many women that feel if their man has to masturbate they are not doing something right...not me. I ask my man to masturbate is a huge turnon for me.

rm_sloman44 60M
701 posts
6/9/2006 5:01 pm

I masturbate, there for I am.

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/9/2006 8:42 pm:
There for you are what? Sorry you lost me there.

wanderlust01970 50M

6/9/2006 2:43 pm

I agree too, we all agree, nothing wrong with masturbation either with someone or by yourself. If it feels good do it! I'm very secure with my sexuality and have fun doing it. Always better to partner, more fun!

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/9/2006 8:40 pm:
I think one has to be secure with their sexuality to be able to talk about masturbating, and to be able to do it in front of another.

MaggiesWishes 59F

6/9/2006 2:31 pm

If you can't please yourself, how the heck you going to know what to tell your partner how to please you?
It's a very real part of ourselves.
It feels good, it's sexy ... and even more fun to help each other.
Ok, I'm with you and MoMo ... I'm hooked, Sista

Can we now, take a pause for the cause
Warm huggies 2ya

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/9/2006 8:38 pm:
lol...I will be taking a pause for the cause here shortly. It feels's a huge could one not be addicted lol


6/9/2006 10:22 am

We are sisters of the to thine own self be true club. I also am not saying better but I am not saying worse either Just another part of my sexuality. I love to love me No shame and no game. Just for the thrill of it! I too find it very giving not to mention smoking HOT to do it for or have it done for me. {=}

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/9/2006 8:35 pm:
That is a great saying..."I love to love me". If you cant love yourself how is another to love you? I could never feel shame for feels to damn good to feel shame from it.

HeardLankaMalls 55M
2925 posts
6/9/2006 9:53 am

There's definitely something to be said for masturbation. As you said, you know your little spots, likes, etc. And, sometimes (or in my case, most of the time) it's nice to just get that release.

Hugs, C

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/9/2006 9:58 am:
The release and exploring my body is what it's all about for me. I have never had a orgasm that felt bad

Ginnung 37M

6/9/2006 9:00 am

*Starts chortling like a madman*

Sorry. Talking about your orgasm reminds me of the last time I slept with my now-ex. She had her first squirting orgasm, and panicked in the middle of it. She didn't quite push me off the bed, but did curl up in a whimpering ball until it stopped, and then cried for a bit.

OMG funny.

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/9/2006 9:36 am:
I have never squirted but, there are a few times I think that I got real kinda felt as if I was going to pee and held back lol.

rm_fiorello477 55M

6/9/2006 8:33 am

Se capissi cosa c'è scritto potrei anche commentare, ma io l'inglese non lo sò...penso però che abbia ragione. Un saluto a tutti

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/9/2006 8:40 am:
No speak Italiano sweetie

rm_moonboy23 36M
893 posts
6/9/2006 8:16 am

Good to some body is enjoying life
but i really understand "my body began to shake uncontrollably and this feeling came over me".I have notice it happened to one of my sexual partners we had good fun for more than hour and I decide stimulate the clit for about ten minutes. sunddenly she squirt.after that she shake like somthing. It not only feak her it freak me also badly.It is discrete therefore I did not know much about her.
now we both laugh at it.Unfortunately she no longer stay near by.

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/9/2006 8:42 am:
Wow, sounds like you did all the right things for her. I am sorry to hear she no longer is close to you but, there are others out there that will enjoy you just the same sweetie

cbron2 74M

6/9/2006 7:34 am

Didn't someone say having sex with someone you really love...and i agree mutual masturbation is a real turn on...the other turn on for me is giving my partner oral sex (clit stimulation) at the same time massaging her G spot and experiencing her many orgasms.of course 69 is fine,too..have a great day!!!

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/9/2006 7:51 am:
When I masturbate alone I only do clit stimulation...I don't insert. When I am with my man doing it I do insert most of the time. Having him suck on my clit while I insert makes for a GREAT orgasm.

rm_unlistedone 65M
2718 posts
6/9/2006 6:26 am

Teasing, pleasuring, being open-minded, masturbating...Sb, In the last couple of blogs you have outdone yourself! If everyone could think as you, what a wonderful world it could be. I tip my hat to ya lady! This has been great! (An add that wonderful pic and this blog just becomes perfect!)

Keep it up girl. You keep me up and smiling... all the time!
Hug, kiss, and a smile...143, me

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/9/2006 7:45 am: are just the sweetest...I am so flattered that you enjoy reading my blog. Tomorrows blog will be on flirting...don't miss it lol. Thanx sweetie. Hugs and kisses

rm_gorilla062 49M
232 posts
6/9/2006 6:23 am

I have alwasy had a philophy that is this..... if it feels good do it, the body never lies!

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/9/2006 6:59 am:
Very true, and it does feel good, and that is why I do it atleast twice a day lol.

rm_skyeone2 64M/45F
7186 posts
6/9/2006 6:21 am

I have been masterbating forever it seems. When I first became sexually active it was the only way for me to reach orgasm. In fact it's been that way till just over a year ago when I met the new man in my life! Even though with him I don't "need" to masturbate (he gives me all the sex I could ever hope for), I still do it, as does he! We both love the thrill that masturbation gives us and each other!

As ThickDick says "This IS my temple. I will worship it as I see fit. Always have...always will." I couldn't agree more!


Blessed Be

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/9/2006 7:42 am:
My first orgasm was through masturbation and I have been addicted since. For me I don't masturbate because I am not getting enough from my man...I do it because it feels real good and I can.

rm_kneel_be4me 48M
457 posts
6/9/2006 5:35 am

What I have found is that most women are not secure in themselves or their sexuality to be able to deal with a man that also masterbates. They can accept it as a once in a blue moon sexual turn on watching each other, but if it happens more often durring the relationship they are not secure enough to cope with it.

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/9/2006 7:39 am:
I guess I am a little different...I love to watch my man masturbate as I talk real dirty to him...such a turnon.

rm_shannee2006 52F
3355 posts
6/9/2006 5:24 am

Mutual masterbation, masterbating alone? Total heaven!

Yup...this juiciness is from me....


rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/9/2006 7:01 am:
You are so right, and I do it with or without a partner.

ThickDick2323 105M

6/8/2006 10:54 pm

What you say is true. I masturbate with my partners as well as alone. Whether while single or taken, it doesn't matter. If the mood strikes, I do it. There is no shame. There is no guilt. A person that feels either for masturbating doesn't have a secure enough comfort level with making themselves happy. I would venture to guess they also have issues with achieving their goals and their rights in the use of their free will. What a shame.

This IS my temple. I will worship it as I see fit. Always have...always will.

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/9/2006 6:58 am:
I feel people that feel the need to hide that they masturbate are not being their true self. I would hate to have to walk around this earth feeling like I have to hide something as simple as masturbation. As you said "What a shame"

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