A Tease Makes For Great Sex  

rm_1SweetBitch 55F
3114 posts
6/6/2006 9:06 pm
A Tease Makes For Great Sex

Today when reading the responses to one of the posts on my blog a person typed "Such A Tease" (you know who you are Gorilla . I took that as a compliment because a great lover is also a great tease. I am a true tease with the man I am with and him and I get very turned on by it. Teasing is a art that many no longer find time for.

Teasing makes for great foreplay and great sex. A person can use every part of their body to tease with. The eyes, mouth, hands, tongue, feet, sounds and body movement can totally turn on a person. If you are having sex with a person and they don't tease or use seduction to turn-on a partner then I think the sex has got to be real boring...I would rather do myself than do a man that just wants to hurry up and plug a orifice for 2 minutes.

For me, teasing my partner and watching how it turns him on totally turns me on. Making my partner hard as a rock without even touching him, just from teasing and seduction is priceless. If I was just going to lay there and spread my legs while saying hurry up and do me I would rather go without.

So, with all that said...you bet I am a tease and I would never want to stop teasing and seducing my man.

No Day Is So Bad It Can't Be Fixed With Great Sex!

1 SweetBitch

MorganLeFaye1978 38F
110 posts
6/23/2006 1:11 pm

I must agree teasing is great. And can be more so enjoyable like GuyWhoListens2u said when doing the art of teasing when you are not together. My man and I teased each other through emails the other day with him at work and me at home. It was such a turn on to know that he was typing them from work. Something he would have never done in years past. (I am finally getting him to come out of his sexual shell - YEA!) And I must say when he got home we had a wonderful time together. Doing what we described in the emails.

However public can be good too. We were out with a couple one night for her birthday and my man came to sit beside me and leaned to my ear saying loud enough for me and the other couple to hear "hey sexy do you fuck on a first date?" It was SOOOO funny to see the shocked look in her husbands eyes and the laugh on his face after he heard the comment. And I was eating up every minute of it as well as my man later on that night!

Keep up the good work and thanks for all the wonderful teasing ideas!

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/23/2006 8:51 pm:
Teasing through e-mails through out the day when you are not together is a great way to tease. It is like having foreplay all day without the other person there. This does make for some great sex when you finally get together.

I am glad you have enjoyed my blog...thank you

AlongArgueClots 59M  
3 posts
6/10/2006 4:42 am

sweetie you are right ihave passed women in the store and said ya the look good but just keep walking but i remember one in walmart that knew how to tease and she knew what she was doing she done it so well that i was temped to ask her if she wanted to go to the dressing room but managed to keep my composer so keep on teasing i wish more women knew how i like agood tease even if i don't get anything

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/10/2006 8:28 am:
I think being a tease is a great thing...I know most men love it and that is why us women do it

cookiequeen1000 53F

6/8/2006 12:03 am


rm_1hotwahine 62F
21091 posts
6/7/2006 9:21 pm

I smiled my way through this 'cause I agree 100%. That is, as long as there's eventually a pay off.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/7/2006 9:26 pm:
Teasing has always been a positive for me, the pay offs are priceless.

puntachueca 105M

6/7/2006 9:07 pm

I don't understand why teasing got such a bad reputation. Being able to tease and be teased really adds a huge amount to a relationship...at least in my book.

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/7/2006 9:22 pm:
Teasing never got a bad from me...I have used teasing in every relationship I have been in and have always gotten a great response from it. I think teasing is what spices up my relationship...I just could not be myself if I could not tease.

rm_JoeyD1214 59M
398 posts
6/7/2006 6:09 pm

Teasing is so erotic and sensual! Glad to hear how much you enjoy it - I know I will enjoy your blog and look forward to your escapades! Even teasing with someone you don't know at the store, or at work can get the juices flowing!

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/7/2006 9:08 pm:
Teasing can be done anywhere...even on the internet. I am glad you enjoy my blog and I thank you for your thoughts on my posts.

JuicyBBW1001 54F

6/7/2006 5:42 pm

I did a post along time ago about the fine art of seduction. It seems some of the men need lessons on seduction.


rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/7/2006 9:05 pm:
Seduction and teasing is a fine art...a art that many men/women could take lessons on. It is a dying art that needs to be revived.

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
6/7/2006 3:57 pm

That attitude will serve you well, my dear.

Blog On!

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/7/2006 8:53 pm:
Thank you, great to see you again...I am going to check out your blog and I hope you are posting again.

Whispersoftly5 52F
15176 posts
6/7/2006 12:36 pm

Teasing is wonderful and so are the results of it!!!


rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/7/2006 8:52 pm:
The results from teasing makes it all worth while

GuyWhoListens2u 56M
325 posts
6/7/2006 11:46 am


Its also fun to do discrete teasing when you can't be together or the other person can't respond... such as in a public place or during the day when you are apart.

Trading things like that back and forth can really get a fire going.

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/7/2006 8:51 pm:
I totally agree with you, you don't have to have the person next to you to tease them...you can do it over in phone, in a note, in so many ways...teasing is great.

alamo1235 58M
995 posts
6/7/2006 9:58 am

You are so right.Teasing can be very erotic.

I love the scene in the movie " Flash Dance" when they are eating in a restaurant and she does a great tease just eating the lobster.

Have a wonderful day.

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/7/2006 8:44 pm:
Teasing is great because it can be done anywhere any time and most of the time it is only your partner that gets it because it is directed directly towards them.

RockPebble 69M
2476 posts
6/7/2006 7:05 am

I think that's one of the things that's missing from my marriage. Keep up the great posts.

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/7/2006 8:42 pm:
Sorry to hear that...glad you enjoy my posts sweetie

teddybare426 58M
487 posts
6/7/2006 6:37 am

100% Agree. Many things go into great sex.

This has got to be one of the most important.

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/7/2006 8:41 pm:
I have to agree with that...if you cant tease...you cant please in my book lol

rm_gorilla062 49M
232 posts
6/7/2006 6:30 am

Never said I didn't like the tease part... I thought it was great.... started getting a chubby just reading that post. I thank you for sharing.....makes me wonder how I could tease you. Will have to think about that while cleaning my tools later! lol
Love ya SB!!

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/7/2006 6:55 am:
LMAO @ have to think about that while cleaning my tools later! Teasing can even be done by cleaning tools...it's all in the way you move your hands up and down the tools...a little winking and licking the lips helps too.

rm_herestill 56M

6/7/2006 5:12 am

if she can't tease ,I won't come around to please!

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/7/2006 6:52 am:
Having a partner that cant tease you...I see no way of them truly pleasing you.

SortsOmensAlien 58M
243 posts
6/7/2006 3:16 am

you gotta love a tease..

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/7/2006 6:04 am:
I love a man that knows how to tease and I am a big time teaser.

haversack_smith 40M
6192 posts
6/7/2006 1:37 am

Ow wow, I couldn't agree more. Sex doesn't always have to be pounding away at 100 miles an hour like a steam train rushing to the top of Mount Orgasm - you can heighten the excitement so much by teasing and delaying the final pleasure, making your lover think you're going to do one thing and then not doing it... MMMMMMMMMMMMMMmmmmmmmmmmmmm...

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/7/2006 6:03 am:
lmao @ "100 miles an hour like a steam train rushing to the top of Mount Orgasm". I love it when you get so close to what he wants and you can hear a little moan from him, then pull away not giving him what he wants YET.

rm_unlistedone 65M
2718 posts
6/7/2006 1:10 am

I can see you doing this.
(And if I had been your neighbor, I would have found a reason to come out from behind the window!)
I do love someone teasing me... almost as much as I enjoy teasing them, also. It makes the whole thing more intense. Great posts, SB. hug, me

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/7/2006 5:59 am:
Can you see me being a tease? lmao. I think if my neighbor would have come out from behind the window he might not have had to explain to people why the wall next to the window was so full of cum lol. I believe teasing is a must for a good sex life.

cookiequeen1000 53F

6/6/2006 10:12 pm

love the seduction

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/7/2006 5:41 am:
I am with you on that one.


rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/7/2006 6:10 am:
I just went to your blog and saw I typed Happy B-Day July 7th lol. I am so sorry...I meant June 7th lol. Can you delete that off your blog please.

rm_dreamer96_1 39M

6/6/2006 10:01 pm

Great post. Thanks for the advice. I think that most people get turned on by being playfully teased. But sometimes partners forget. Sex should be fun and some sexual teasing will keep it that way.

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/7/2006 5:40 am:
I believe that many after a while make sex a boring routine. Because of this you find many on AdultFriendFinder complaining about a boring ass sex life. Ya gotta stay playful in a relationship unless you want to loose it.

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