A Natural Born Flirt  

rm_1SweetBitch 55F
3114 posts
6/9/2006 9:39 pm
A Natural Born Flirt

If there is such a thing as a natural born flirt...that would be me. I have been told for as long as I can remember I am a flirt. I do not try to flirt with everyone I run across but, I have been told I do. Could it just be that I am a outgoing person and I love to compliment people that I run into if I see something I like.

I compliment men and women all the time on their eyes, their smile, their jewelery and many other things. I don't feel that I am flirting I am just complimenting. Does complimenting another make you a flirt?

I had a guy at work ask me why every man that starts talking to me says something sexual. I told him I did not know but, him being a man maybe he could tell me why men think sex when I talk with them. He told me it was my bedroom eyes and the way I carry myself. I then asked him what did he think I could do to change this kinda conversation from men? He said get a new set of eyes, get a boob reduction, and stop using your body to talk with others. I could do nothing but laugh at him.

I will not be changing who I am in any way shape or form. I know there are many of us natural born flirts that don't even know we are flirting...we are just being ourselves.

No Day Is So Bad It Can't Be Fixed With Great Sex!

1 SweetBitch

rm_JoeyD1214 59M
398 posts
6/11/2006 9:38 am

Sweet B - don't kill a guy for trying! Love that profile pic!

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/11/2006 8:57 pm:
Glad you like the picture...I will not kill ya...I promise

JuicyBBW1001 54F

6/10/2006 8:40 pm

aww but the same woman who told me she wanted to take me to the strip club told me i had a deep sexy sultry voice go figure.


rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/10/2006 9:15 pm:
lmao...I think she really knew you were a lady and wanted some of you...she wanted to swing on you lmao

JuicyBBW1001 54F

6/10/2006 6:28 pm

Sometimes I find myself flirting with my customers. And sometimes the women flirt with me thinkin I am a guy. One woman wanted to come and take me out to strip club and do weird things to me. Then when I said I don't think my boyfriend would approve she says oh bring him too we can have a threesome afterwards to which I replied no thank you I don't swing like that. (She taught I was a man) lmao. How they get Gerald from Cheryl I will never know.


rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/10/2006 8:23 pm:
Gotta love when people mistake you for a man. You would think through your voice they would know you were not a man lol.

Mysterylady1961 55F

6/10/2006 12:02 pm

You´re alright luv..

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/10/2006 8:17 pm:
Thank you

rm_JoeyD1214 59M
398 posts
6/10/2006 11:42 am

Thanks for the pic! Would love to see more. Returned your email!

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/10/2006 8:16 pm:
color red] You have now seen me from head to toe dressed...what's left to see? I do not do nude pictures so that will never happen lol

Whispersoftly5 52F
15176 posts
6/10/2006 8:54 am

LOL! Don't change a dang thing!!! Flirting is such fun!!!

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/10/2006 8:59 am:
lol...I would never change who I am...I love me.

rm_shannee2006 52F
3355 posts
6/10/2006 7:43 am

Flirting's fun! I say do it as much as possible. And never stop being authentic...I say that too.

Yup...this juiciness is from me....


rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/10/2006 8:58 am:
I don't ever feel I am flirting but, I come across as I am all the time...it's just me and I will stay me lol.

teddybare426 58M
487 posts
6/10/2006 6:59 am

Not so many truly friendly people left, maybe you stand out because of that?

I'll confess that if someone I do not know starts complimenting me, I wonder the reason. So many people are indifferent, and many outgoing people.........want something.

When I do meet a REAL friendly person, it makes my day.

Yes I have met a few that sex came to my mind. Just something about them.........

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/10/2006 8:56 am:
I agree with not so many friendly people left...sad but true. One day I told a woman she had beautiful eyes...she looked at me and said I am not gay...I said ok...neither am I. Because a person compliments you does not mean they want you...this might be why many don't compliment others.

wanderlust01970 50M

6/10/2006 6:26 am

It's your aura, your energy flows all around you. Send some of that up to the northeast....your sexiness!

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/10/2006 8:54 am:
I would love to send some to ya but, I have to keep it in the south...home sweet home...thanx for the post

HeardLankaMalls 55M
2925 posts
6/10/2006 6:08 am

I think alot of it is making someone else feel comfortable. As you said, "I am a outgoing person and I love to compliment people that I run into if I see something I like". Compliments and attention always makes someone feel good about themselves, and attracts them to the one giving it. It helps to be attractive on the outside, of course, but the inner person, when found, is a big attraction too.

Hugs, C

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/10/2006 8:52 am:
I believe beauty does come from within...I don't think I am anything special...I am just me. I do enjoy making people laugh and smile...too many sad people in this world. If me doing this comes across as flirting...so be it.

rm_skyeone2 64M/45F
7186 posts
6/10/2006 5:35 am

Oh girl, you aren't the only one who gets that! I get it as well and quite frankly I take it to show that I'm still quite attractive and distracting!

Anyway, good for you saying you won't change for anyone!!!


Blessed Be

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/10/2006 8:50 am:
I do have to say I am flattered by it...I mean I am just being myself and it comes across as flirtting...nothing wrong with that...I will always be, just me.

rm_JoeyD1214 59M
398 posts
6/10/2006 5:16 am

Keep flirting sexy! A lady like you has an inner beauty that shines and some misconstrue it as sexual, while others appreciate it and recognize it for what it is! Personally, I truly enjoy a lady like you and act similarly. Don't worry about others hang-ups and just be yourself! Any chance I can see those beautiful bedroom eyes?

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/10/2006 8:48 am:
You are so kind...I am who I am and that is all I will ever be...I do love me. I will send you a face shot of me as soon as I am done responding here...I hope you like

chasingfun27 38M
1108 posts
6/10/2006 5:01 am

That's the way of the world. A woman only has to talk to us and we'll find some sexual message in it - we are quite simple.

Realistically, some people do carry a more sexual (and I hesitate to name it as such) aura than others.

I can only comment on my dealings with women (generally in a professional capacity), but regardless of looks, some are far more sexually attractive than others. I couldn't say why.

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/10/2006 8:47 am:
Nothing wrong with being simple...I do find it flattering that men feel the need to talk about sex with me lol.

rm_kneel_be4me 48M
457 posts
6/10/2006 4:56 am

Now you couple that with how men are starved for and crave attention and you have a combination that is almost always going to turn sexual.

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/10/2006 8:44 am:
It would be really sad to think that so many are out there starving for attention. I know this is the case and it saddens me. This might be why I use my humor and myself to put a smile on peoples faces.

puntachueca 105M

6/10/2006 2:56 am

It is a sorry world where being nice and considerate is twisted into nothing but a sexual comeon. Like [blog unlistedone] said...love you just the way you are.

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/10/2006 8:42 am:
I thank you...I am glad you pointed out that Unlistedone said that because all I could see was Friend and hug lol. Thanx

rm_unlistedone 65M
2718 posts
6/9/2006 11:00 pm

As Billy Joel sang...
"I love you just the way you are."

rm_1SweetBitch replies on 6/10/2006 8:39 am:
Your friend here reaches out and hugs you...can ya feel me?

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