Decisions, Decisions!  

1LovelyBrunette 41F
313 posts
8/2/2006 8:36 pm

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8/15/2006 6:23 pm

Decisions, Decisions!

For the past few weeks I've been seriously considering making the move back to my home state, and back with my family. I've wanted to move back ever since I moved to CT a little over 6 yrs ago. I think I finally started to feel "settled" here about 2-3 yrs ago, but still, always thought I'd eventually move back. So, why has it been so scary and difficult to seriously make plans to just do it? I dont know, but it has. Maybe its the whole looking for another job, another place to live, packing up again, losing the good friends I've made here, and in a sense "starting over" yet again idea of it that has me hesitant. Im so not good at making quick decisions, and especially big decisions that can affect your life if you make a wrong move. I always need to rethink, brainstorm, weigh pros and cons, look at all scenarios, etc...

I've given myself till the end of the year to decide and plan what would work out best for now. We'll see what happens.

rm_max_is_back 43M

8/2/2006 9:11 pm

Make yourself 2 lists - and divide it into 2 columns each. Pros and cons for each place. Maybe that would help you out. But whatever decision you make - just know that you made the right on.

rm_alotofPlzr4U 105M

8/3/2006 5:21 am

Always have to weight the pro's and con's... and more so than that....

You have to find happiness LB....

Life is for living. loving and laughing!

rm_alotofPlzr4U 105M

8/6/2006 8:13 pm

Happiness is key LB... no matter what we do everyday... if we have happiness... life will seem wonderful...

For some reason I have a certain smile and laugh bouncing around my memory right now....

manextraordinare 41M

8/14/2006 8:10 pm

i know the feeling well. there's times my home state calls to me. i just fight it back down. i miss my old man on a daily basis. i don't know if he knows it but when asked "who is" i always answer that he is my best friend and undoubtedly the person i respect most in my life. in fact just writing this now makes me want to move back. i've been in ct 8 yrs now and have fulfilled most of the reasons i had for moving here. there is something that's keeping me here for a little while longer but it's fadding and through no choice of my own.

i can say this much...if you choose to move you will be missed. can i vacation in your home state? will you accompany me when i do?

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