Where did all the hostility come from?  

1Bigbeautifullay 56F
228 posts
9/14/2005 2:01 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Where did all the hostility come from?

OMG!!! in the past 48 hrs I have talked to 2 of the rudest men to ever enter my life!! Tell me how does being honest constitute being treated badly???? One of the guys was a young'un who I was chatting with and who assumed cause I talked to him I was going to jump in my car and run to fuck him and when I didnt he called me everything but a white girl, LOL And the more I tried to be nice the more hostile he became, so finally I called him an ass and dickhead and am glad now I didnt let him get even close to me.

The other never got past the first email without freaking out about my profile and I Quote:
"you know, you'd get some real response if you'd stop pushing people away with that lame diatribe you keep feeding us. think positive for crying out loud. I'm none of those things you mentioned but away I go. take some prozac for christ's sake "

All I did was send him an email that said sure send me some pics I would love to see then and then a copy of my profile, LOL I was completely taken aback by the response, and not only that the chicken shit blocked his email from me so I couldnt respond to him What a Jerkoff!!!!

I am almost beginning to think that I am best off having no relationship at all if they are all nut cases out there... what I dont need is another stalker, LOL

007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
9/14/2005 2:41 pm

You should have blogged his ass, put his name and everything in the email. when they think that by them blocking your emails they get the last word, put his ass here for the world to see what stupidity he possess(both of them) Dont let these asscracks break you. I am bent, but I am not broken. Read me at my blogs, and get a feel for how to handle these busters.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

1586 posts
9/14/2005 3:57 pm

1Bigbeatitfulday -

Sorry that you had to go through that stuff. What both of the jerks had to say really tells you a lot about both of them, doesn't it?

You know what you want, you can't be pushed around and they don't like it.

Fuck 'em. (Actually, don't fuck 'em. Ever. LO

The beauty of someone having a spaz on you before you ever meet them is that haven't lost anything but a little bit of your valuable time.

Sounds like you have a couple of prime candidates for your iggy bin!

Straycatsetsuko 61F

9/14/2005 4:24 pm

I read your profile. So? You wanna be clear what you want. I can really relate to a lot of it. No married men--guess who I hear from most? Send a picture of your face, dog, car, whatever, just not of your cock. I relate well to what you said. Don't know what was wrong with those guys, except possible testosterone poisioning.

Theflinkychick 105F

9/14/2005 4:51 pm

There is no explaining some of them. Not long ago I had one call me a dimwit in IM and THEN send me an email asking "So when are we gonna get together?"-- the 12th of never most likely!

Not all who wander are lost.

rm_honeydo1973 58M/43F
7 posts
9/14/2005 9:00 pm

Well hang in ther your profile is honest and to the point.F--k them.ther is some nice men out hear.

AtomicArtist0 45M
6015 posts
9/14/2005 10:13 pm

hmmmm...sorry you're getting such hostile responses. You're a good writer, so you seem to deserve better. Nice pics, too. We're not all bad. Your dream guy is out there.Take care.

joshuawavedragon 35M
1 post
9/15/2005 10:38 am

I'm sorry to hear that you had such an issue with a couple of guys. Jackasses like that give those of us guys that are actually looking for something real a bad name. Especially those of us that are just trying to have a little fun untill we meet that special someone. I can't say that I haven't been thinking "LET'S FUCK" right off a time or two, but to my mind, it's always the woman's choice what goes on in the bedroom.

frbnkslady 48F
6183 posts
9/18/2005 12:27 pm

Agoigo, NO matter what is in a person name, does not give another the right to harrass. I go on cam alot in the chat room, but I do not show, you should see the abuse I get in the pages I receive. I had 1 man yell at me, I was wasting his time, another ' I am trying to jerk off here and you're NOT helping me." Nothing in my profile or in BBLs profile says we accpet abuse... I wouldn't care if my nic was cumNlayme


frbnkslady 48F
6183 posts
9/18/2005 12:28 pm

Sorry BBL, no, you do NOT have to take taht.. give it back, let other women know what big jerks they are.. it gets around... and they will get theirs in the end.. You are a beautiful person, I enjoy chatting with you and wish you the best girl.. T


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