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1973GAL 43F
1790 posts
4/10/2006 5:50 am

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4/13/2006 7:37 pm

WOW

What a shocker this am...I logged onto my email and found an email from my flashlight buddy...the one that I gave high priority to and the one that made me feel incredible each time we would talk or get together--he is feeling guilty and has to end this affair!

Well I won't lie, it does hurt to read what he wrote, but I broke my own rule--I got close to him which is something I never do--have not done that in like 5 years or so with someone I had an affair with...I should have stopped seeing him after the first time we had sex--just called it quits and moved onto the next friend, but something about him made me want him even more--just the way he looked at me and the way he made me feel--each time amazing and wanted!

Yes I am hurt but I will have to move on and things will be ok--what I shared with him was incredible and I won't ever forget it that is for sure!

Note to self : NEVER BREAK YOUR OWN RULES!!!!


jazzeeBoi 43M

4/10/2006 10:29 am

It's so difficult to separate sex and feelings; the better the sex, the more feelings there are. My guess is this is especially true for women, but men aren't totally detached either at the end of it all. But in a way, you should be happy to be hurt, it means you're still human! Which is a lot less than I can say about most of the activity here...


pandoo5 59M
398 posts
4/10/2006 12:41 pm

hurt, if I am in love it won't hurt otherwise every thing will hurt, there is only one rule never break it.


SortsOmensAlien 58M
243 posts
4/10/2006 5:03 pm

Cheer up!!!

There is always another.


1973GAL 43F

4/10/2006 7:02 pm

    Quoting jazzeeBoi:
    It's so difficult to separate sex and feelings; the better the sex, the more feelings there are. My guess is this is especially true for women, but men aren't totally detached either at the end of it all. But in a way, you should be happy to be hurt, it means you're still human! Which is a lot less than I can say about most of the activity here...
jazee..you are rite

i have been so good thru this whole thing--i have been the one who has the "no feelings attached" to this whole thing and i broke that rule i guess....i am not your typical woman who gets attached to every guy i have slept with, i am more the one that i will call you don't call me kind of woman LOL

yeah i am human and it did sting hearing it--but we all have lives that we have to consider before heading out into things that may pose a threat to them


Looking0100 54M

4/13/2006 4:27 am

Wow is right.

I am sorry that you lost a sex mate. You really enjoyed having him in your life. Then he ended it. . I really feel your pain.

But, you can always look for another partner or partners. Sex is good. You may not want a life-time partner, just a sex-partner. But still it hurts to be left alone. And from what I read, it seems that you really cared for this man and wanted to be with him forever. That is love.

You made a mistake. But love is blind. When you love someone, you are bound to do things that you didn't think you could or would ever do. I understand how you felt.

You say that you are moving on. That is good. You are quite hurt. But, you will do things to ease your pain.

Take Care

Jon C.


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