Sitting here thinking  

1973GAL 43F
1790 posts
7/23/2006 8:11 pm

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7/27/2006 4:38 am

Sitting here thinking


Yeah I am sitting at my computer thinking of things that I have done in my life...some of the things I have chosen to do is not always healthy and other things I have chosen are very selfish...

I have been thinking about the selfish things that I do---I was chatting with a friend about this topic, what we do on this thing, is it selfish? I mean if you are married and go out and enjoy yourself once and a while...is that selfish? I do not think so--to me I do this because I need some "me" time and it makes me a better person and I can deal with life a bit better if I get out...Sometimes being a mom who stays at home with her kids can get a bit frustrating because I need adult conversation, yeah I have a husband--but he works alot and then he comes home and eats and then goes to bed to get up and do it all over again...So there is not much to say about that and the conversations that we have are null now...So I do not think I am being selfish when I get out and do my thing...I enjoy it!

And people on here who think that I am fake or I do not really meet people--I do meet people, but I am pretty picky on who I meet--I know that sounds a tad rude, but I am not one to fuck any guy who emails me---there has to be something about you that draws me to you--something you say or something about you that I have seen--I can be picky if I want to--it is my choice...I want to spend my "me" time with someone who I will click with and who enjoys what I enjoy--mutual satisfaction! And please if you write to me and put in there that you can lick me for hours or that you enjoy oral or 69--I am not turned on by that--you know that women are different than men when it comes to stimulation! So if I do not respond to your off remarks--you may get the hint! If it takes me a bit and we chat and you seem to be annoying me--forget it..ain't happening! I am for real and I enjoy meeting men and having pleasurable times with them--but only the ones that I have chemistry with! I am not going to put a flag on your head and fuck you for old glory--that is not me!

Ok..off my soap box--sorry I am a bit bitchy today--but I hate when guys get uptight if I do not "pick them" or if guys write stupid shit to me--doesn't work for me--so accept it and move on! We are all adults on this site--so if I say I do not want to meet--go find another that will!! I won't be hurt if you say you don't want to meet me or you are not attracted to me---I am a big girl, I can live with that! Be honest with me and I will be with you!!!!


love2lickpussy76 40M
6 posts
7/23/2006 10:34 pm

I have such a hard time on here getting together with people. I want a friend with benefits but can never get anything started. Yeah, sometimes i jump the gun and get into the "im good at licking" comments. But it is because i am and know that alot of women do like that. Just not all of them. You are a wonderful person and I love your writings.

You are not selfish, You have every right to pick and choose who "enters" your body. Keep being picky because there is nothing wrong with being a nympho, there is alot wrong if you just lay down and fuck anyone who asks...

Don't you agree?


1973GAL 43F

7/24/2006 7:58 am

    Quoting rm_robotdevil3:
    No, it is not selfish. Those people are just jealous.

    Rejection stimulates powerful emotions as it makes us guys realize we are not the center of the universe. It makes us act like jerks.
Thanks Robot =) I guess I was really moody yesterday...And it must hurt the egos sometimes that a woman does not want to meet ya...I am so over that though and I guess that makes it hard for me to understand why others aren't HAHA


1973GAL 43F

7/24/2006 8:01 am

    Quoting love2lickpussy76:
    I have such a hard time on here getting together with people. I want a friend with benefits but can never get anything started. Yeah, sometimes i jump the gun and get into the "im good at licking" comments. But it is because i am and know that alot of women do like that. Just not all of them. You are a wonderful person and I love your writings.

    You are not selfish, You have every right to pick and choose who "enters" your body. Keep being picky because there is nothing wrong with being a nympho, there is alot wrong if you just lay down and fuck anyone who asks...

    Don't you agree?
Love2...I believe that if you are good at that, then that is cool..but it is not something that every women wants to read the first time you contact her...maybe after a bit of chatting then that is cool--cuz I am sure the conversation will go in that direction =)

And yes I do agree about the nympho part and me just laying down to fuck someone just because LOL...thanks =)


swmeb 54M

7/24/2006 9:34 pm

LOL, gotcha, you may not fuck just any guy that sends you an email but you never return email anyway so what's a guy to think? How are you supposed to get to know him if you never talk to him? I did get your attention though and boy you sure took it to heart. I sent you three emails and nothing but decent pictures, not pictures of my dick. The least you could do is acknowlege a guy one way or the other when he sends you an email which is what I say in my profile. I've replied to every person that's sent me an email on here, not just blown them off with a ho-hum-yawn. Anyway, I'm glad you're having fun on here and that it's working out for you. Your husband is such a lucky man to have a wife like you...lmfao! Just wondering, how do you do it all? Blogging, meeting guys, keeping hubby happy and raising the kids? Wow you're just the envy of every man alive! good grief....guys..this girls a fake..think about it....


swmeb 54M

7/24/2006 9:45 pm

Oh..I just read "all" of your rant at the beginning of this blog. You never said "no thanks". You never said anything at all. There was no rejection to be had and you're nothing to to fret about even if you did reject someone. Dont lead people on by lying just to make yourself look better or appear to be a victim. My money is still on you being a phony.


swmeb 54M

7/24/2006 10:22 pm

Go ahead, lets hear about how you "rejected" me, about all the anxt in your life, how hard it is to be you and about how I'm such a jerk. This should be good....start laying it on thick like frosting on a store bought cake.


MarriedJoyStick 46M
8 posts
7/25/2006 9:18 am

I can see why you stated once before Gal that you prefer married men over single men. Looks like there is a real reason why some of the guys are single.


JusLookin4Fn99 45M

7/25/2006 12:39 pm

I think it's rather good to be picky. I know I am somewhat picky myself, why should one have to settle when they already have someone at home? When you're going out finding your "fun time", you want to pick and choose for whatever mood you are feeling. Kudos to you 1973Gal.


1973GAL 43F

7/27/2006 4:38 am

Thanks guys for saying such nice things..and agreeing that is it is ok to be picky =) Some of the other comments made on here are not worthy of my commenting back =) So I will keep my mouth shut on those LOL


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