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fashion question  

nastytease4U 45F  
12128 posts
9/28/2014 4:26 am

Last Read:
10/12/2014 5:12 am

fashion question

Ok, my husband and I have this debate going. He thinks it would have been appropriate for me to wear a sheer black top at a dimly lit nightclub. In the right light, my nipples are visible.

I thought it best to play it safe and wear a strapless bra over my breasts....

we scouted the ladies that night, plenty of low cut tops, but none of them wore something see through to where you could see her nipples....

ok, tell me what I should have done
I'm a man==I agree with your husband
I'm a man--you should have tested how dark the club was, then decided there
I'm a man-in a public place, visible nipples are a no no
I'm a woman-men are pigs, of course you wear a bra!
I'm a woman-follow your husband's advice, he won't steer you wrong
woman-test it out at the club,


oroborostwo 44M
651 posts
9/28/2014 5:02 am

Just been and had a look at your photos. I'd like to see more so burn your bra's!
For that matter burn your panties too. Happy to shave your pussy for you. And give it a test drive once done.

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TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
9/28/2014 5:07 am

Unless the "club" you were going to was Pleasure Garden or SaintsnSinners or BNA..... wear a bra! At a regular nightclub, no way! Who knows when someone might pull a fire alarm, the paramedics show up and everyone gets herded outside into the bright lights of a television crew trying to salvage a slow news night!


sam_sybian 58M
638 posts
9/28/2014 6:54 am

How about, I'm a man and I think you made the right call.


windsjohn 72M  
798 posts
9/29/2014 8:32 am

You decide what's right for you. As George Ballanchine the famous Ballet choreographer said once: ."..The man is there just to make the woman look more beautiful."


MechanicalMe 63M
39 posts
9/29/2014 3:21 pm

Just don't stay to bar-time, when the house lights all come up and you're golden.

At the same time though, a bra could easily be removed upon a visit to the restroom if the lighting permitted.

Another option, a sheer straight length teddy underneath?

What was your husband's main interest in your wearing only the sheer top, because of how it fit your form so sheer or not sheer wouldn't matter or, specifically because of the chances that more than might be desired become visible?


Pulsator552001 63M
132 posts
9/29/2014 9:43 pm

I've looked at your pictures, and I think you would have looked fab in a top which showed your nipples, but it's really up to you whether you're enough of an exhibitionist to appear in public like that. You shouldn't have to feel embarrassed.


submokey 69M/62F
10383 posts
9/30/2014 12:51 am

Actually, scouting club wouldn't really be my choice, but closest one.
Would have told to just wear the shear top anyway!


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_JKH_ 69M
5448 posts
9/30/2014 5:32 am

I think you did right.

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letstalk580 53M
166 posts
9/30/2014 9:54 pm

If you enjoy teasing the boys, follow his advice and show off. If you're more concerned about decorum, cover up. We can only advise based on our desires. Your comfort level and playfulness are things for you to balance as you see fit. I'd be pleased to see you out flirting and teasing.


rm_HermansBoy 76M
1475 posts
9/30/2014 9:58 pm

I think you should only show off the girls if you're comfortable with doing it.

HermansBoy


HappyChick43 52F
1042 posts
10/1/2014 4:26 am

If someone close to me said do this or do that Id tellem to fuck off. I do what I want when and how I want in or out of a relationship.
What you choose to do, is your choice not someone elses.


kimdan4fun 41M/42F

10/1/2014 7:09 am

We think you should do what feels right to you.


glu04 55M
187 posts
10/1/2014 9:21 am

It is true that Nipples are not tabu but you never what turns on a man. Some gets turn on by seeing the size of woman breast, some by shaven Armpit some or other things are there to hit. But option 2 is better to judge the situation


92camaro66 57M
1753 posts
10/1/2014 11:58 am

i think the sheer top with a visible bra is way sexier


sassy1595 59M/55F  
70 posts
10/6/2014 4:32 pm

Don't know what the top looked like but...you could have skipped the bra and worn a bolero or crop sweater or something over it just in case the no bra look was a mistake...or taken the bra with you and ducked into the bathroom to put it on. You were with hubby...turn up the heat a little!


jnd4funtimes 58M/51F

10/7/2014 7:22 am

You should do what you want and to hell with the rest.


crow0h1 53M
100 posts
10/15/2014 5:34 pm

Since i am a male, i might have an overall bias toward your husband's way. I might make the mod, based on temps and weather, of maybe wearing an appropriate jacket or the like. If things are kinda warm, can always unbutton and hint without showing. It mostly depends on how comfortable you are, if the potential of showing at all is verboten then it's moot. I would not force the issue. If modesty is not an issue, i would then consider the venue, if it might not be appropriate. With the jacket, if it gets too warm can always move to a darker area and take it off, again if modesty is an issue. I know that sometimes us "guys" like to kinda show off our partners and might lead to not considering their feelings. Probably not much help. lotsa words saying not much new.

Personal experience, the closest i had an SO do this was private. Birthday time kinda thing if i remember. She would never have gone out in a lace top and short skirt without any undies, even with a jacket. Though, i do have a pleasant-ish memory of back in the early 90's when i went to a bunch of sci-fi/fantasy conventions. At many of the there was a very attractive lady of colour who often wore dress made of ring mail. I heard her mention once that she had to stop wearing it one night because it murdered her shoulders. One con, i was catching up with friends and she knew one of the guys in the group and came up to say hi. Took a lot not to drop and thank her. She was wearing the dress and i found out that was all she wore. Noticed something poking through a link, and then another. The incorrigible curiosity made me look the whole of her side and noticed that that as it was above, was also below. Made and broke my weekend right there.

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rm_icemans2014 39M
38 posts
11/28/2014 9:00 am

please keep it for your safety....


hunterpt 62M
13507 posts
11/6/2015 3:21 am

Agree with husband. Kisses


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