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canyaz
8/1/2008 11:10 amLast Read: |
I have always said, "The healthier you are in mind and spirit, the more you attract unhealthy people." Unhealthy people see what you have and hope it rubs off by osmosis or something. Over the years I have tried to generally improve and be a healthy person. Mind, body and spirit. So, as it stands to reason, unhealthy people flock to me. I have managed to either help them by pointing them in the right directions or running like hell the other way! LOL Here is my query today. Actually last night. I was having a conversation with someone who is attracted to me because I am open. This person lives in another state but is trying desperately to persuade me to meet him. I am only talking with this person because they offered insight to a personal issue I can't wrap my head around just yet. During our few chats, I have been as I always am, open. I am honest to a fault. I don't judge. And if I am not sleeping with you, well, its not my problem. Because of my attitude and my blatant sexuality, this person is totally turned on. My problem, I am not interested. At All! I tried to gently explain, I value his help. I enjoy the conversations. (Which I only allowed to start because I felt the distance was safe) He is smitten. This happens to me a lot. Men and even some women find themselves attracted to me. In the past I have given into a few sexual explorations, only to find I was just a novelty needed to be tried. Like Baskin Robbins flavor of the month. Once they tasted a few times, they are bored and move on. Why because they are not happy with themselves, therefore they are ADHD with the people in their lives. Keep the people moving through their lives so no one stops long enough to take a really good look and see the truth. In general, I do not give in to their persuasions. I am not tempted now, either. I am pissed. I am sick and tired of being an object of curiosity for unhealthy people. Oh, just went "Bitch Blog" Sorry I a turned into a Psychologist on you. I have just been examining this phenomenon lately and wondering why these people think I am obligated to play in their fucked up sand box?! There is a difference between a good BJ and a bad BJ. |
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 8/17/2008 7:27 pm |
I think controlling people will try to guilt you into doing what they want you to do without regard for what you want. Don't feel bad about telling such people exactly where to get off - they are apparently not too concerned about your feelings, so you should not be overly concerned about theirs.
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8/5/2008 2:18 am |
Sand boxes have cat shit in them! Hows that for an interpretation to the people you mentioned. Stay out of the sand box! That's what I was always told!   Seriously though. About your post concerning a barbie doll or a woman? You are all woman and sexy to! I don't care what the people say. I know where their jive is at!
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8/4/2008 9:00 pm |
Each time we sleep with someone, we give a little part of ourselves...Choose wisely.  
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8/2/2008 10:25 am |
I was really just trying to make light of the topic. I hate Rap, mostly because of the way they degrade women with the use of the word. How about "Honey, you seem to be in a really BITCHY mood, May I do something to help you feel better? 
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8/2/2008 9:30 am |
"canyaz replies on 8/2/2008 10:54 am: I see what your saying but I think many are missing the point here. This guy was Iming with me as a source of information, expert, if you will. Now all he can do is think with his dick. He took a "professional" relationship and turned into a sexual contest." Slightly different situation. Since he broke a confidence...don't be nice. Tell him to "Piss off".
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8/1/2008 9:18 pm |
Uh... I've just recently become attracted to your blog... so what are you saying about me? LOL Hey, didn't you mention I should see your boobs without clothes on? I'm all ready for that distraction. 
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8/1/2008 4:05 pm |
Bitch can be such a nice, sexy word, when used in proper context. LOL
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8/1/2008 3:32 pm |
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breaths away. You Need a vacation darlin
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8/1/2008 2:39 pm |
Take care of yourself. That is your first priority, then the others. Stand firm and be true to yourself. Please remind me of that the next time I need to hear it! dawnbreakin 
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8/1/2008 1:46 pm |
I was accused of being a bitch today. I certainly don't deny that I can be, but usually it's when I've been provoked in some way or another. I know there are days when you can look up the word bitch in the dictionary and there's a picture of me. It is, however, a very good picture. "Don't waste your time on a man or woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you." Earthy A Texas Blessing Decadently Delicious Hand Sex  
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8/1/2008 12:51 pm |
sometimes being "gental" just won't do. webspry "If you're looking for sympathy you'll find it between shit and syphilis in the dictionary." — David Sedaris
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8/1/2008 12:48 pm |
Um...I hate to say this...but I find that I'm either getting something out of the relationship or I'm not. Meaning, most relationship are built off of a mutual "feeding" of sorts. So if you are getting something out of it you have to determine if it's worth what he is taking...if your not getting anything out of it...why are you putting up with it? I agree that positive energy attracts negative...once you find out it's negative, the next move is yours to either, put up with it, change it, walk away.  Good luck, don't worry about hurting feelings...it sounds like he's not worried about hurting yours.T
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 8/1/2008 12:26 pm |
And you worry about the unhealthy people you attract with a healthy mind? Imagine what us sickos attract? I never knew the homeless and indigent had laptops and Adult FriendFinder accounts.We all try to swim on the surface so we don't get ate by the bottom feeders. Have a great weekend
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8/1/2008 11:38 am |
Will you have sex with me ? Sorry perhaps I should have read it all ...... I just suddenly felt distracted by you .... sorry attracted to you ... Its the failing eye sight from all the unhealthy wanking you know ....
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