Why is everyone older?  

100words 38F
60 posts
5/14/2005 10:57 pm

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Why is everyone older?

Why are the popular people who blog almost all over the age of 30 or even 35? Are these people bored or obsessed? Do they have nothing better to do? Do these people have more interesting things to say than younger people? I don't understand why the popular bloggers on this site are older. How does a person write like 6 blogs in one day? Will these older people get pissed that I am asking this question?

Funny because it seems like these people are so sexually free, but is the truth that they are hiding behind the computer and failing to get out and live life rather than just blogging about it?

I am predicting answers like..."We are more experienced and interesting." "We are better writers." "We are just really wild, exciting and sexual."

I'd love the honest answer, "We spend 10 hours a day on the computer."

TakesTeatsStood 50M
505 posts
5/14/2005 11:17 pm

I work in computers and have the time during the day....

I am married and don't have the social life I once had so socializing online is sometimes easier.

When you have children it becomes MUCH more difficult to get out - kids don't seem to do well when you leave them alone to go out at night. And frankly not many of us could afford to pay for a sitter all the time even if we wanted to do that.

Thats my answer, I in no way consider myself 'better' than those that are younger than me.

But I would suggest you save this post and read it in about 10 years and see if you perhaps can relate to the 'older' people. Perspective is a very interesting thing.

Keep blogging though, I'd love to see more blogs from the 'younger' folks

man4nooners1 46M
155 posts
5/14/2005 11:19 pm

Maybe the "popular bloggers" here did live a wild, exciting, sexual life when they were younger. When you get older, responsibilities take over, and you can't go out with your friends 3 or 4 times a week. Perhaps blogging fills that void. I can't speak for others.

I do know that when one gets older, sex is more about the whole experience, and not just the physical rush of the moment. And communication is the key to that.

As for 6 blogs a day, maybe some people use the computer more than others. Or are more efficient. I don't know. But I'm sure that has nothing to do with age. Plenty of young people spend their free time on the computer too.

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
5/14/2005 11:23 pm

the truth is younger people active in this lifestyle are alot less common, as it is an interest which usually only developes with age and takes alot of self confidence and self knowledge to pull off, majority of younger people our age don't have that or are only just beginning to develope it and don't have the confidence to actually share it to any extent.

I have the time because I am home all the time and often working on my computer during the day....I haven't gone out this week because my health hasn't permitted it, today already had two offers for monday, the pity is I can only be in one place at a time so will have to turn one of them down although I will be taking at least one of them up on their offer!


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
5/15/2005 12:08 am

Obsessed? hmmmm... I work PT in 3 different places, go to school online, volunteer with 2 organizations, mother of a daughter graduating from high school in the next 2 weeks, and love the men I have met through AdultFriendFinder (online and in person). Blogging is an obession in itself b/c I love to write. Besides my AdultFriendFinder blog, I have 10-12 other blogs in the blogger world. When do I sleep??? Never!! Just kidding!!! I do manage to sleep an hour or two here and there... and all day on Mondays after my 24hr shift at the shelter where I work on Sundays.

BTW, blogging is a great way to learn more about the people you potentially have sex with. I don't like the chat rooms, but I'll IM someone for an one on one chat. I see more and more younger folks stepping into the AdultFriendFinder blogworld, and I have encouraged them to continue doing so!! and be more creative in their blogs.


nightstogether 56M

5/15/2005 1:31 am

I am a writer and spend a considerable amount of time at my computer; I also enjoy the chance to communicate and capture my thoughts and feelings which a blog allows (not so much here at the moment, but elsewhere). I also type very quickly, having spent more than thirty years typing on manual and then computers, so I'm not using up all that much time.

One thing to remember is that we all have different interests, and some people genuinely enjoy making entries in the blogs but also have plenty of opportunity to go out and have fun.

private-intellectual (.de)

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
5/15/2005 3:18 am

ancient at 39 mmm,sorry but i feel younger and wiser than i did at 25 and life does truelly start after 35 lol.
I woke split shifts in my own business so i'm home for three hours in the afternoon and again late evening,i simply hate TV so i find blogging and chatting a lovely way to relax and living in a small village in a foreign country the perfect way to speak my own language and interact with the out side world.
Some post take me a well thought out 15 mins to write and other 2 min,i spend more time looking for pics to match than post lol.
Older folk in the list,were all interacting with each other,we've all lived the similar dreams and sexual advenures ,so possible can relate more to each other,who knows ask me again when i'm really old and just before my death bed as until then i have no intention of ever feeling old,unless you count the first 5 mins on waking then i feel old old,

I'm a

i'm here to stay

expatbrit49 62M

5/15/2005 5:49 am

Its a well known fact young lady that when you get old like us you can play on the computer all day and fuck all night and have a really good imagination........LOL

Good question that I am not going to answer

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

PailsDiverHonks 55F

5/16/2005 11:01 am

Why are all the old people commenting on this blog?
Wait a minute...When did we become old?

Why am I here? Married, kids, my social life evolves around baseball games, concerts, volunteering, community activities, running a house and keeping everyone happy. It’s easy to log on when the house is quiet or in the evenings when everyone turned in.

Do I have better things to do? HELL YES! But those things can wait until tomorrow, like laundry, cleaning a room, gardening, going to the grocery store.

Am I bored? Sometimes I have never hidden that.

Do we have more interesting things to say? (you tell me)

I think the most I wrote in one day was 3.

I’m not pissed off at you, why would I be? You asked a good question.

LOL, I’m keeping quiet with this next question (but is the truth that they are hiding behind the computer and failing to get out and live life rather than just blogging about it?) LOL, if she only knew **insert devious smile here**

Just as you should never assume...you should also never predict.

Have a good one!

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
5/17/2005 7:24 am

mmm.... as not being 'old' or 'older' but simply an old hag.... I think I best leave it up to the yunguns amongst us oldies to reply ....

2 posts
5/17/2005 7:44 am

You are being inmature & very silly, she just asked a crazy question so u could start making rude comments about the people who responsed to your question. Your acting like a little child just in case u didn't know 26yr isn't young like u want everyone to think it is, u should take postingnick advice save this question and read it in 10 years. Please!!!! GROW UP!!!! where r all the grown & mature adults at?

zerocool1985me 31M
2 posts
7/22/2005 2:17 pm

hey look im not im only 15 if you want some great sex though email me at AdultFriendFinder.com

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