Atypical, but not apologizing for it  

100percntnocnt 49F
48 posts
1/20/2006 7:12 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Atypical, but not apologizing for it

I again find myself having to defend myself to some guy in chat because I am not what most would consider sexually promiscuous. Because this is an "adult site", I don't "belong" here as he so eloquently ( hah! ) put it? Chances are, he has no clue what that even means! My profile is very clear as to what I am looking for and what I am NOT looking for. I don't expect to find it here. Instead, I come to chat with some wonderful people. I enjoy chatting; and on the off chance that I meet someone who meets my criteria, then I consider myself lucky. Don't confront me in chat saying you've winked at me and I never responded. If I had to respond to every wink I received, I'd be quite busy. Don't confront me in chat because I didn't respond to an email. If you wrote me once and I wasn't interested, I do have the proper etiquette to respond saying "Thank you for your time; however, I don't believe we are looking for the same things". So what if I like "shmoozy" dates as you were so quick to assume. So what if I like getting to know someone before hopping into bed with them. If that doesn't fit your criteria, then move on and leave me alone. If you think by coming into chat or emailing me with some snide, bitter letter that I'm going to apologize for who I am, you most definitely better think again. It's not that I think I am better than anyone. I'm not that type of person at all; however, I am selective and know what I want. I can't help it that I don't fit your criteria of jumping all over you when you ask if I'm "up for a good time". My idea of a "good time" doesn't always involve sex....there ARE a lot of other fun things to do. I am selective because, for me, sex with a total stranger is not a comfortable thing. I like to know a man before that point. I like things to be a bit more intimate and not mechanical. Bottom line is this: if you read the profile and don't like what it says, keep browsing. There are TONS of other women out there who aren't like me. I won't apologize to you for my beliefs or viewpoints; however, I do feel sorry for you in that you are unable to accept a polite rejection graciously. I've been rejected more than once in my life and I don't let it consume me to the point that I choose to pick on someone for their reasoning behind the rejection. As for your comment about this being an "adult site", I have but one thing to say. If it's such an "adult site", act like one and GET OVER IT!! I make adult choices and choose to do certain things or not. Had you made the adult choice to ask me in a more mature manner, I might have rethought the situation. Now, I am quite happy to say, after seeing your true colors come out, thank you for saving me the time of another night wasted on quite possibly yet another date from hell. You know who you are.

rm_qcao1 48F
197 posts
1/20/2006 7:39 pm

I am sorry you had such a bad experience in a chatroom.

Do not settle for anything less than what you are looking for, and ignore those who try to convince you otherwise.

quirky1234 53F

1/20/2006 10:00 pm

yay someone speaks the truth... quirky you go cousin


frbnkslady 48F
6183 posts
1/21/2006 12:16 am

LMAOOOO, you go gurl... but I do so love to hear about your dates from hell though.. top one goes to the 'brought my own dbl headed didlo' dude..ROLFMFAOO T


frbnkslady 48F
6183 posts
1/24/2006 4:32 pm

LMAOOOO.. I also tell them that when they start paying for my subscription and we are on here as a cpl.. THEN he can have a say so on what I do with the profile..Till then.. FRICKEN PISS OFF.. T


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