If sex is a pain in the ass, use more lube!  

100needfulthings 42M
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5/24/2005 11:14 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

If sex is a pain in the ass, use more lube!

So I'm playing hookie from work tonight, what better subject to dispense a bit of knowledge about, eh?
Anal sex.
A bit of a controversial subject.
Not something you bring up a family gathering, unless your family is a lot more interesting than mine!
Some think it gross, un-natural, a complete turn off. You are entitled to your own opinion, but if the title caught your eye, or you're here in pursuit of knowledge pertaining to me, you at least have a curiosity about it.
Surprisingly, with as few women as I have been with, I have experienced from one end of the spectrum to the other. One who made it plainly clear from the beginning that that orifice was 'exit only', to a wonderful freak (at the time, now I'm not so sure...) who demanded it after she came once vaginally and then would cum again from anal and some vigorous self gratification.
I will admit, to me, it is partly the taboo of it that is a turn on, but also, very much the sensation and visual stimulation.
I have never demanded anal sex, in fact I have never actually had to bring the subject up. Ok, maybe a 'slip' of the tongue in the wrong direction at the right moment has breached the subject sufficiently to arouse interest as well as an interesting conversation.
Passion, patience, and lots of lubricant. Cleanliness is a must. The patience and passion can sometimes be at odds, but well worth the effort in the end (no pun intended!). Take time to get all worked up, cum once first if need be.
And lots of lubrication. I cannot stress this enough. Who would want the equivalent of a rug burn in their ass? Not me!
And if it's just not working, don't get stressed, there are so many other wonderful parts of the body to focus on, or include in the overall stimulation of the moment. Try again later, if need be.
Well my eyes are tired, and typing is getting difficult, maybe I'm not entirely faking my sick call to work tonight. Maybe I'll post part 2 tomorrow.
Good night kids, play well together,
~K~


playfulwithyou33 56F
961 posts
5/25/2005 3:03 am

(shakes head) Seems bloggers "end up" "pulling out" way too early...come back (not touching that one) and tell us some more.


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